blondey111,

I like that maybe I could use that to call a day off from work I have to wash my hair and its gonna take all day...lol

Peggy112 ,
my newest opinion minion you totally right! I think people should be honest from the gate and if its going sour " hey , listen you a good person but I don't think you & I could see each other" then its the reason....but as humans sometimes we get silly with it...make up all kind od excuses.

I'm normally up front with the person. I put it across in a polite way. I don't want to hurt his feeling. I usually say something like "Sorry, I just don't feel I'll be able to continue this. Thanks all the same, though. I enjoyed our chat". If you're going to let someone down, at least put it over in a way that isn't insulting. After all, they made the effort to come and talk to you. It would be worse if they hadn't have even bothered turning up.

Dear OP,
I kinda get the sense you talked yourself out of whole point of the date, which was, that when the girl saw you, she simply wanted to get you home with blazing speed. But instead of picking up on the obvious, which was she was purposely being blank so you would catch on and find a bedroom quick.
Instead you asked her how the chicken was and if she wanted more wine, and if she was having a nice day and so on. You kind of talked yourself out of an all nighter thinking she was not a talker, when all the while she was desperate to do all the talking with her eye popping melons and dynamite legs. You wanted to talk her ear off and she was trying to talk your pants of.
You probably still got her number in those well worn pants of yours. Hand it over and us guys will take it from here
as usual, been a slice