Topic: i have returned after a disaster experience
katiekate57's photo
Wed 03/23/16 08:37 PM
I met a man who wound up being everything but what his words said he was. How does a person find a genuine real man of character on here?

TMommy's photo
Wed 03/23/16 09:17 PM
contemplate for yourself how you allowed yourself to be vulnerable, manipulated by a conartist or a catfish if you prefer that term


what did you allow to happen?

did he pressure you to meet up quickly?

did he convince you that he was in desperate need of your help
and only you understand him?

did he inundate you with sweet sounding compliments as no man has ever done?


think about what you allowed this man to do


next time recognize the red flags

Robxbox73's photo
Thu 03/24/16 12:05 AM
Umm, disaster.. where?

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 03/24/16 12:16 AM
How does a person find a genuine real man of character on here?


GPS?

Smiley414's photo
Thu 03/24/16 12:45 AM
I've had my fair share of disaster dating it's hard to believe there are such people out there but unfortunately there is and you always have to keep your eyes open whilst online dating and not let them suck you in x

Gummiente's photo
Thu 03/24/16 02:46 AM
Hey, if it helps any, just know that we men experience disasters from women, too. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get back in the saddle. Use this experience to help you spot red flags in future encounters.