Why the womans think that keeping friendship with a man is bad for them.

What specifically are you talking about?

it can be really bad. she knows other male friends who are hanging around

because they my get a chance at her and in almost all cases that is true. and it

makes other males uncomfortable who would like to date her and rightly so

......

But a friend is always friend. If i am good and if i never think bad to others then no any can say me bad.

''ITS NOT ALL ABOUT YOU'' ''WE ARE TALKING ABOUT HER''

I am talking about the woman friends of mingle2.

It usually depends on more than one thing.

If the particular woman involved has her own issues or baggage about it, such as a very jealous boyfriend she's still trying to get along with, then no matter how wonderful you are, you're out.

On the other side of things, some friends can be very demanding, very clingy. If your friendship turns into a burden, or a chore that the other person has to perform in order to maintain things, you are going to find yourself on your own again and again.

I have friends with whom I converse almost daily. I have other friends, who only talk to me when they aren't otherwise busy. Doesn't mean I dump them, and it sure doesn't mean I bump them with repeated messages, complaining about being neglected.

One of the things that being a good friend really IS, is to get the heck out of the way when the other person needs you to.