i'm 48 joyce but you dont do long distance! age is up to the people involved. as long as their both legal.

deliberateme...you're awesome

Just the way I feel. My profile has no "I'm looking for this or that" just a brief of me!

i use to live in fort worth
also burleson for awhile

You don't choose who you love. It just happens. And when it does, as long as it's legal (of course) it should be celebrated!

Heh as a 21 year old girl I've found myself with men over twice my age. Never bothered me before. Go you! :)

I prefer older men. I like mature adults, with enough experience to laugh at themselves and have confidence in a relationship.

There are PLENTY of older men who are not mature adults though and some younger men who are mature beyond their years, like the guy I am crazy about.

Yup...I say age is just a state of mind...feelings are feelings.

REO Speedwagon sang "I can't fight this feeling anymore..."

Go with em and yes as already said...just needs to be legal.

I have to agree I don't think age matters. If you have similar interests and get along and have the chemistry why let age difference ruin a potential relationship.

Most of the younger men I know are a waste of time. But then again I live in a smaller area.

Ive always dated younger guys because thats what Im attracted to but Ive gotten hurt way to bad by them because they aren't ready commitment.

there is nothing wrong with dating someone older than u..as long as u guys are happy together, who cares about the age thing.
Becca

was casually seeing a 20 yo BOY, when i am 29 and have 2 kids- finding a big lack of experiance in his understanding of relationships. but he is much sweeter than an already screwed up from previous relationships man... dont get it though.. cant when for losing, thinking im too picky.

My last serious relationship was with a man 12 years older. Things were great until he started treating my like a child. If you can make it work, and are willing to work on things that are different between the two of you, go for it!!!

when my best friend was 19 he was dating a 29y/o. what a mess.

my uncle dated a women whom was I thik 9years older than he, they dated for 8 year and then got married. they're great together.

my brother is 22, he's dating a 27/28y/o. seems well, cant tell right now.

my cousin (19) is about to get married to a 22y/o. Its destined for divorce, everyone in MY family can see it. everyone in HER family is like "HOORAY"

Im not for older women. (although having said that and knowing my life I'll probably end up with an older woman )
but I reckon that divide by 2 +7 for men works for some age brackets.

Is it a sexual thing or both have the same mentality. I mean she has a mentality as a 24 year old? Maturity plays a huge part in a relationship of such.

For women, they yearn for that sexual satisfaction when in their late 30s and in their 40s plus and wouldn't mind a horny young man not only to keep them young and feel wonderful but to make them feel they are not dead.

For the young man, he knows he got it good with an older woman, she will give him all he want to keep him. He is laughing and is that love, maybe. Most don't have jobs and no intention of working or doing something to be a responsible family man.

You see if it is just a fun thing go for your life...enjoy but if it is a serious relationship....rolling eyes in me head

This is the same with older men...well it has always been for them and more suited where traditional way of thinking the man takes care of his woman ....but today anythign goes but... i tell ya but later haha

I believe that age is only one piece of a relationship puzzle, maybe the most important after attraction, but only one part.

When age is a issue it is usual because one of the parties makes it one. I think mental age is the real true indicator as that will tell you if two people are compatible or not! Hey what do we all know any ways we are all on a dating site!

JMO

I think a large age gap is great for the sex, But eventually destined to failure. When you are practically a generation apart how can you really have a meaningful conversation.

Of course as you get older the age gap seems less important because the maturity level of both level out, the goals become the same.

But someone in their mid 30's to be dating someone in their teens. that I believe has a 1 in a million chance of lasting. But I am sure the sex is good.