You're not alone. Let's chat!

Looks like you are old and wise and would have a lot of experience in these matters

Am too alone! We can chat, but no one's gonna marry me because I'm broke and unemployed. No women of any ethnicity for me anywhere.

hmmmm...maybe if you spent your time working instead of wasting time here you wouldn't be broke JMO

I thought I was going to learn something about being broken not broke...
And Moving tips...

Hi Welcome to Mingle OP

Just step back and take a deep breath, reward yourself with things you like to do, read a book, take up a new hobby,take time to regroup and be assured that everyone goes through this.Don't rush into any new person learn to love yourself again.Best of luck to you.

Well, I will present my proposal on how I'm going to deal with my recent breakup (He's in prison for cheating on me with a female, who, unbeknown to anyone at the time it actually happened, was 14, and LIED her way into a bar...long story!!, but I regress...)
But as I was saying:
Step One: Morn the few good points of the relationship.
Step Two: Sign up for a dating site and find someone new.
Step Three: Make his life as much of a living HELL as practically possible,
using whatever completely lawful means which may be at my disposal,

Step Four: Build New Relationship with someone else.

Step Five: Finally, move on.

All this said, Would be interested to know if anyone has any patent objections to my plan...

Give yourself sometime to grieve... why? Because the arse is now dead to you.

Welcome to Mingle2, Emtu

Welcome to Mingle :) enjoy and have
fun... Goodluck on what you are
looking for here.

Welcome, Welcome and Welcome. Ok, first aid for a broken heart. This ain't ma first rodeo, so pull up a chair. Pour your self a stiff drink and here we go. Checklists are nice if your heart is a computer. Fact is you've been involved to the point of love, it's very personal. It's going to take time to get over the overwhelming feeling of dull but constant cutting pain that your heart is feeling. So honey, ALLOW yourself to be angry. Here's the rule though, cause no bodily harm. Also try not to get thrown into jail.

How long does it take to get over you feeling of absolute failure? Well realize that there is nothing new under the sun. You are experiencing what your fellow brothers and sisters on this planet have been dealing with since the beginning of the first relationship. So how long? It depends on the individual. Remember, my friend, the sun will rise again tomorrow. And day by day the weight will be lifted.
DO NOT go running into the Arms of someone new. Look up bounce back in relationships. You may run into someone special, but you may ruin it because you still haven't gotten over (what's her/his name).

The day comes when you don't throw darts at the picture of your ex. You tell yourself, well maybe I had a little bit to do with the crash and burn. When you see your ex, you don't greet him with the middle finger salutation..... Then it is time to start dating again. Of course some people will say just jump back in the game, don't waste time. Yes you could do dat. Maybe it will work for you. In the end it is up to you.

Well my drink is gone and I'm snockered, 3 fingers of Jim Beam. hic-up.. I hope this helps, but anyone who has had a broken heart knows, it's painful and some people stay broken hearted. Don't do that. That special one may be waiting on you to have your heart healed.

Ciao bellas y vatos