I wonder sometimes about dating sites. Are they really worth the time and effort.

I don't know about getting a date, but I do enjoy these forums.

I don't know. Though, judging by my present degree of success, I might say "No". But, I could be totally wrong as well. The truth is, I'm 36, still unmarried and my conclusions are badly skewed by that fact. I tend to assume that it isn't at all possible for me to meet my desired mate, period. It doesn't seem to matter how I'm doing it.

I'm not going to tell you whether or not to use dating sites. Only you can make the ultimate determination on that. You might be overwhelmingly successful or you might have a worse time than I. It's really all a massive crap shoot and there can be no positive way of predicting outcomes.

Does this make any sense to you?

may or may not be a waste of time but doesn't take much effort to click on profiles and type.

Yep! gotta agree there. Leave expectations at the door....that way, you could be in for a pleasant surprise, and if a connection happens it just happens...just saying...

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same here :)