Topic: Why do men find it so hard to understand women?
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Wed 01/27/16 09:12 AM

mikaxel80's photo
Wed 01/27/16 09:13 AM

I hear complaints from men and women alike ,which tells me that neither genders are doing a great job of understanding each other. Besides., who has the time to understand anyone when we are so busy trying to transform our partners into carbon copies of ourselves ?

Not all of us are busy doing that, m'lady

Stan387's photo
Wed 01/27/16 09:14 AM


In my personal case I found why. Sometimes I don't understand myself, I dub't that other people (men\women) can understand something I don't about myself.



With all due respect lady, if you don't understand yourself you have a big problem.
But knowing that you don't understand yourself is something. Don't you agree everybody?


You looking for someone to co sign what you just said looks like you don't understand yourself. I'll never understand myself growing pains I believe you can say

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Wed 01/27/16 09:27 AM
Why do men find it so hard to understand women?

They don't.

Some specific individual men find specific individual females hard to understand but that's mostly because they don't want to look at things honestly, they want to avoid any negative connotations about themselves or the person they want to mate with.

So they refuse to see certain things about themselves and/or others.
Which gives them a lot of dead ends in trying to understand what's going on.
That just leads to frustration.

When people are frustrated because of their own faults they tend to make exclamations blaming someone else.
"I can't understand women!"
"I can't understand men!"
"Everybody is stupid!"

It's also why people feel far more superior and smarter as 3rd party objective viewers.

It's far easier to spot the fault in others when there is absolutely no reason to look for your own.

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Wed 01/27/16 10:05 AM

I find it rather simple and easy to understand women than MOST men. I don't know why. I have seen many couples break up because of inability to understand her. I find it saddening for this deficiency on most men.
Everybody, I am not a shrink

But you're single.

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Wed 01/27/16 10:35 AM

Why do men find it so hard to understand women?

They don't.

Some specific individual men find specific individual females hard to understand but that's mostly because they don't want to look at things honestly, they want to avoid any negative connotations about themselves or the person they want to mate with.

So they refuse to see certain things about themselves and/or others.
Which gives them a lot of dead ends in trying to understand what's going on.
That just leads to frustration.

When people are frustrated because of their own faults they tend to make exclamations blaming someone else.
"I can't understand women!"
"I can't understand men!"
"Everybody is stupid!"

It's also why people feel far more superior and smarter as 3rd party objective viewers.

It's far easier to spot the fault in others when there is absolutely no reason to look for your own.

Nicely put.

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Wed 01/27/16 10:37 AM


I find it rather simple and easy to understand women than MOST men. I don't know why. I have seen many couples break up because of inability to understand her. I find it saddening for this deficiency on most men.
Everybody, I am not a shrink

But you're single.

Yes I am.

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Wed 01/27/16 12:34 PM



I find it rather simple and easy to understand women than MOST men. I don't know why. I have seen many couples break up because of inability to understand her. I find it saddening for this deficiency on most men.
Everybody, I am not a shrink


We bow to you "Knower of All Things"!!!



Thanks but no thanks 'Soulution finder to everything'


I fail to see the difference whoa

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Wed 01/27/16 12:47 PM
whoa whoa :angel:


I find it rather simple and easy to understand women than MOST men. I don't know why. I have seen many couples break up because of inability to understand her. I find it saddening for this deficiency on most men.
Everybody, I am not a shrink


We bow to you "Knower of All Things"!!!



ashzayn's photo
Wed 01/27/16 12:49 PM
smokin drinker drinker



VioletTigress's photo
Wed 01/27/16 04:30 PM

I find it rather simple and easy to understand women than MOST men.


What exactly are you trying to say?

BHawkins's photo
Wed 01/27/16 04:38 PM


I find it rather simple and easy to understand women than MOST men.


What exactly are you trying to say?

He's saying his pimp hand is strong :wink:

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Wed 01/27/16 04:42 PM



I find it rather simple and easy to understand women than MOST men.


What exactly are you trying to say?

He's saying his pimp hand is strong :wink:


Ha! drinker

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Wed 01/27/16 06:09 PM
Predictability is a cause for boredom.....and we all know what they say , about women....lol... I never want to understand women and submit to a life devoid of excitement....and sometimes I just don't care if they understand me ...just saying...

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Wed 01/27/16 10:56 PM


I find it rather simple and easy to understand women than MOST men.


What exactly are you trying to say?

My ability to understand them is good

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Wed 01/27/16 11:11 PM
Women are a riddle, wrapped in an enigma. It takes a lifetime to figure them out and will drive you ininsane. Worth every second.

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Wed 01/27/16 11:22 PM


I find it rather simple and easy to understand women than MOST men.


What exactly are you trying to say?

My ability to understand them is good


Sure. If you say so.

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Wed 01/27/16 11:25 PM

Women are a riddle, wrapped in an enigma. It takes a lifetime to figure them out and will drive you ininsane. Worth every second.
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They will never drive you insane. If you really analyse it you make yourself go insane

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Wed 01/27/16 11:36 PM


Women are a riddle, wrapped in an enigma. It takes a lifetime to figure them out and will drive you insane. Worth every second.
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They will never drive you insane. If you really analyse it you make yourself go insane

Then you lack passion.

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Wed 01/27/16 11:38 PM
Sorry, got the quote box screwed up.