Topic: Teaching the kids
Michellebac's photo
Tue 01/26/16 02:59 PM
I always wondered if when i have my kids i will be the one to explain to them about sex. Experienced moms, you where the one who explained to them about sexual acts, and about the female body and etc?
(My curiosity is because my mom never helped me in regard to my body)
Tnks! XOXO

andyjacob777's photo
Tue 01/26/16 03:20 PM
there are diverse ways of teaching kids as a parent, each kid's method is also different from each other.
You have to observe and learn about your kid.

sparkyae5's photo
Sat 03/26/16 12:30 PM

I always wondered if when i have my kids i will be the one to explain to them about sex. Experienced moms, you where the one who explained to them about sexual acts, and about the female body and etc?
(My curiosity is because my mom never helped me in regard to my body)
Tnks! XOXO


as long as she knows not to without being committed to each. without love in there hearts for each other, and

being committed then they are reduced to being animals.......the guy needs to earn it.......otherwise he will never

appreciate her......SHE REALY NEEDS TO KNOW WHAT SHE WILL BE GETTING INTO,,LIKE FINDING OUT HOW

GUYS THINK,,,,,THERE ARE BOOKS LIKE ''MEN ARE FROM MARS WEMAN ARE FROM VENUS,,,,AND THINK LIKE

A MAN AND ACT LIKE A LADY......THIS IS SOMETHING VERY PERSONAL AND CAN EFFECT HER EMOTIONALLY

AND HER FUTURE HAPPINESS....ENCOURAGE HER TO READ ABOUT IT,, KNOWLEDGE OF THE OTHER SEX CAN

GO A LONG WAY TO PREVENT A LOT OF MISS-UNDERSTANDINGS........:smile: .

sparkyae5's photo
Sat 03/26/16 12:32 PM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Sat 03/26/16 12:37 PM

Mystify35's photo
Sun 03/27/16 08:13 AM
Edited by Mystify35 on Sun 03/27/16 08:14 AM
Age appropriateness is always the key. From the time they start talking, teaching them their own body parts (use proper terms like vagina, penis etc) is always important.

Questions will be asked as they get older based on what they hear. Best to explain to them what things are - if you tell them "Ill tell you when you're older", there is a risk they will ask friends and get a very wrong answer. If things come up like "what's a blow job" (when you have a 5 year old ask you that, it's shocking!), I've just told mine that it's something two grown ups do that love eachother very much. Sometimes it's the easiest way to explain and defer until they're much older.

Sexual education starts at around grade 5 in school, but I'm sure you'll hear plenty of questions before that.

There are children's book at the library that teach the basics - would be helpful if things come up.