i do not understand this!! why do women join such dating social sites if they dont want to reply? its not like i have a creepy profile!! plus those who reply take such long intervals to do so!! its too frustrating!!

It's simple, it means ether their not interested, their chatting with someone they feel is more interesting, they don't check this site all that often or they don't really use their account anymore.

Keep trying.

well, besides looking calculatingly intelligent...(good english by the way! hard language to learn, bravo.)

honestly, you look kinda pissed... maybe it's the glasses, or that you might want to take a smiling pic to add with that one.....and... two pics give you more credibility....


Indian people are about the friendliest, most respectful people on this planet.... bring that to here, and it might also do better..... many Americans (not all) are sheltered and prejudiced about the world beyond their borders, also something to consider...

I lived at Dadar Station in Mumbai, and also Bangalore for a tiny bit.... I miss it!

this site isn't very active unless you count scammers ...most profiles were created but inactive ...just be patient , you've only been here a couple of months.

Aaaaawwww... I like your profile but its better for me to stick with people my age and maybe age incompatability has been an issue with some of the women you approached as well. Don't give up. You posted in the forum today and that is a great start Keep doing that and people will get to know you better. Welcome !

Ps: Dont give your number or email to anyone who asks for it in the first chat and definitely dont send any money to them. there are a lot of scammers in the chatworld. Take your time with people before trusting them

Peggy, you are about as cool as they come.

OMG... Im blushing. Thank you dark owl!

not a compliment, just a sincere fact.

I call it as I see it.

Women on this site are overloaded with msgs...so it could be awhile before you get a reply...if you ever do. Meanwhile, may I suggest you have more patience or look for romance closer to home, e.g. local dating sites...desi planet, is great...just saying...

OMG squared.. Thank you

Indian people are about the friendliest, most respectful people on this planet.... bring that to here, and it might also do better..... many Americans (not all) are sheltered and prejudiced about the world beyond their borders, also something to consider...

I lived at Dadar Station in Mumbai, and also Bangalore for a tiny bit.... I miss it!



Dark owl is sadly right. Prejudice is a reality in the chatroom as well. And there are many countries that people associate heavily with scamming and spamming ,and sometimes innocent people from that country are dismissed as devious too. I know.. it is unfair but it happens. Try to reach out to as many people from the East as possible like thedivorcedone suggested. At least the prejudice will be minimized. Also, try to let your opening line include something you read in the woman's profile. Saying "hi" in a chatroom of a 1000 "hi greetings" will decrease your chances of a response. Good luck to you!

hey peggy... thanx alot for taking time to post your views.. its cause of women like you that makes me wanna try.. and i too liked ur profile and would love to have u as a friend... i tried to message you here but i cant.. it says you are not eligible to send message to this user.. can u tell me the reason behind this?

I checked out both your profiles....
Man...yours is not bad, most profiles from your area are hopeless...so that's good...
Now when you see a woman's profile that has certain contact parameters....
So what....this what she is requiring...
Its not for us guys to question or ask for an explanation...
Just deal with it and move on...

hey mikey.. thanx for the advice.. and yeah i appreciate their requirement.. am just new here so didnt know the reason behind tht message poping up saying you are not eligible to contact this member.. saw it in forums now.. got it!! nyways thnx for ur advice!!

To be honest I don't check out guys unless I speak to you on the forums. I can't be bothered with scammers so I play it safe.

i know many people here are scammers.. but people should atleast give a chance to someone before judging them as a scammer!!

Good I am not judging all scammers.
I have my friends and I'm happy.

Yeah. Its nothing personal hun. i put filters on my account to match my preferences. Dont worry. You will find compatible people eventually . Hang in there!

prototypex123, sometimes no reply is a reply.
The fact that women don't reply to you doesn't mean that there is something wrong with them.

Good..