looking4home....The search of a "far older than me" is because my best experience with men was with a person 30 years older than me, not for other reason.
If my search bother to younger guys (like you) it's not really my problem, each of us have particular preferences.

By the way, I don't see nothing wrong with women looking for a "sugar daddy", by the contrary I prefer that, instead of a woman cheating the husband. Talking about myself, I can afford my house, car, children music classes and vacations with my own pocket.....and I feel very comfortable with that, I don't need a "sugar daddy".... at least for now. lol ;)

If is so difficult afford a good meal for a guy I prefer to go to a restaurant alone......you know why?....because I can afford that restaurant and I DON"T need extra weight in my life (hope it's not difficult to understand).

If a man can't take care of his woman, it's ok, but IT"S NOT for me (just my preference). What I think is "If you can't take care of me....why I need you in my life if I'm able of take care of you?".

You just do what you are comfortable with Princess, and try not to live your life on others opinions....if worse comes to the worst....use the block option, which is always available...just saying..

So if a guy comes on here looking for a sugar mummy he gets called a bum, but a girl looking for a sugar daddy gets called Princess

eh! Joethebrick Thanks you! child support...

gosh it's so good to see that sense of entitlement is still alive and kicking I see...


hahahaha that antiquated idea of both partners loving, caring and giving to each other must have gone right out the window

give and take
true partnership

or uh no?

where is my fur coat and sports car ya tight fisted bast*rd must now be in fashion

gosh it's so good to see that sense of entitlement is still alive and kicking I see...


hahahaha that antiquated idea of both partners loving, caring and giving to each other must have gone right out the window

give and take
true partnership

or uh no?

where is my fur coat and sports car ya tight fisted bast*rd must now be in fashion

Hmm. Well, since forever, at least for all my life, there's been a fairly well established cultural system, where people follow a simple process:

step one: sense the existence of a sexually desirable person. This is most often done visually, but it can be via sound or other senses as well.

step two: initiate communication with the target. This has the most variation in techniques and strategies, and the reason why it is so very complex, is because the society we all have lived in for our whole lives, frowns on any and all direct talk of pure sexual interest.

At least, for most of us. There are a few people who are permitted, even praised, for seeming to break the rules of etiquette, but even that tends to be within a socially specified system. Very amusing to observe.

Anyway, for MOST of us, if you walk up to someone and honestly and openly state that you want to have sex with them, things will go badly for you. Even if the person in question found you attractive up until that moment, the unwritten rules of decorum include that when one ignores them, it means that they don't respect the other person as an individual.

What this thread describes, is one of the amusing, if pitiful, ways that some people try to deal with this complexity. Very childish, really. They catch on that they aren't supposed to talk about sex straight off, so they don't, but since they have no idea how the subtlety of sociology shapes things, they think "if I lead off with hello I want to get to know you as a person, and THEN move straight to sex, I'll be following the process."

A bit like the mythical "third date rule" for sex. This kind of person hears about the "rule," thinks it's chiseled in stone, and so rushes through the first two dates in a perfunctory manner, in hopes of meeting the person at the door naked, at the beginning of the official "third date."

People should be upfront with what they want.

U right gal