Topic: Dont know what to do....
undertherose's photo
Tue 10/23/07 08:52 PM
hahaha sounds like a plan to me lol

Duffy's photo
Tue 10/23/07 08:53 PM
groovey. let me know how it works out. don't tell him tho.

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 10/23/07 08:53 PM
See you on maury!

undertherose's photo
Tue 10/23/07 08:54 PM
That was not cool lhb!!! lol

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Tue 10/23/07 08:54 PM
would you not have any apprehensions if the shoe were on the other foot,also the trust issue may not be something that you have done but maybe something thats happened in his past..am i the only one here who watches Jerry Springer..i think i might have seen this episode..laugh

undertherose's photo
Tue 10/23/07 08:55 PM
wow i just went from a simple relationship question to a white trash talk show lol thanks! haha

Roddimus's photo
Tue 10/23/07 08:56 PM
before you decide anything, have you seriously contemplated a reverse situation where he moved in with one of his lady friends? if this guy is worth anything to you, you might want to evaluate his disposition first.

Roddimus's photo
Tue 10/23/07 08:58 PM
tomb raider with the interception

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 10/23/07 08:58 PM
Was that the'but it only happened once' episode or the 'hillbillies from appalachia' episode?

undertherose's photo
Tue 10/23/07 08:58 PM
prolly both lol

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 10/23/07 09:02 PM
I have a whole bunch of 18 year old female freinds. Being around them is better than watching springer or maury. You are not the father! But your roomate is!

Duffy's photo
Tue 10/23/07 09:02 PM
say who mentioned Jerry Springer? Here we go again. Do you know how to get beads?
And do you know Jerry Springer's telephone number? I have it. Some guy on this site mailed it to me. I will pass it along. That is the best yet.
Go on Jerry Springer and let him sort this out for you. Too many fingers in the pot now. You need good advice from the man that knows. Jerry Springer, and he could be coming to your town soon. At least that is what he said to me.

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Tue 10/23/07 09:02 PM
Rose, it sounds to me like he may have some issues with insecurity and control. You're moving into a situation where another guy will have more access to you, more of a "presence" in your day-to-day existence. So the boyfriend feels threatened. I don't think his sarcastic remarks are a very productive or mature way to address the problem, though.


Roddimus's photo
Tue 10/23/07 09:04 PM
out of curiosity did you have plans for this living arrangement before you met your current boyfriend, because that might give you some leeway into you're situation, if not i guess it would say a lot on your part to not include him in this living arrangement

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Tue 10/23/07 09:04 PM
sorry ..ill wait my turn next time..amazing how us guys think alike not sure what episode pretty much the same..laugh

Roddimus's photo
Tue 10/23/07 09:06 PM
no problem tomb i guess the important part is the question was asked?

no photo
Tue 10/23/07 09:07 PM
JSH--Jerry Springer Show..coincidence..hhhmmmm

undertherose's photo
Tue 10/23/07 09:07 PM
yes, we were talking about it before we were together. It just took me a bit longer to get all my money together, but yes we did have future plans.

And what is with all the jerry springer and maury comments? lol Just cause im 18 and has a bf with trust issues qualifies me for an episode of jerry springer?!? i dont think so lol

no photo
Tue 10/23/07 09:10 PM
hell i think some of us could qualify..ill start the redneck from tennessee..can you hear the music..laugh

texasrose9's photo
Tue 10/23/07 09:11 PM
You say your relationship is relatively new. If so, maybe he doesn't feel he knows you well enough to feel comfortable with the situation. I'm sure this came unexpected for him as he moved forward in a relationship with you. I can understand his discomfort. If there's truly nothing for him to worry about, perhaps you two just haven't been together long enough to establish a solid foundation.