strictly for cougars and Ben10's

not sure what this means.

Personally ... I am not against dating someone older than me
It's all about mentality... Everyone have his own way to define beauty and love

Well cougar is generally a slang term for an older woman seeking younger men.


Ben10 is usually slang for the younger guy in the relationship....

ie..demi moore(cougar)...Ashton kutcher(Ben10)


so are you seeking older woman and younger guys?.....im confused

This concept comes up so much it is kind of done to death for us that have been around so long.

I don't have any problem with being in a mixed age group to do activities or even conersate but when it gets to personal relationships sorry baby beef is just not even appealing.

I will never believe that younger are normally attracted to someone much older. Maybe they miss being babied and spoiled but I think more of it is their peers have just said "get lost" and they are desperate. Most can't carry on a conversation past how to use, which they often need instruction on, their "stick" and are boring beyond words. Kind of has been clichés even if they are young and might have some looks.

Most of the cougars I have seen are just pathetic. Their personalities seem to have been arrested or regressed to somewhere around teeny bopper to snotty 30 something and if it were not for vulgar retorts and begging for sex they couldn't string two sentences together. Most live in some lala land where if they could not afford a maid and eating out they would perish.

I normally do plus or minus 10......exception being if past this range she gots to be PHAT!

Okay, rather a lazy approach to suggesting a topic for conversation. No parameters set, no questions asked, no mention whatsoever of what you want to concentrate on or why.

My reaction is that this makes this thread an analogy to the most common way that wannabe "Ben10's," appear to be.

That is, lazy young guys, who hope to post their availability for older women to come and do all the relationship heavy lifting for them, so that all they have to do is lay back and be served.

That's actually why the "era of the Cougar" was so short.

It IS over, by the way. That's why so many current day "cougars" do seem so pitiful: the vivacious ones who made the idea of a cougar so appealing and intriguing a decade back, woke up fairly quickly, and realized that they really WERE attractive enough to call for more than a slouching youth in a baseball hat who couldn't or wouldn't bother to string more than a few words together, were a dime-a-kilo. And a rip off at that price.

wow thats right i'm so loving you right now

I don't care how old they are as long as they don't use a walker and have their own teeth I'm good..wink.. o and they can't still be playing with Barbie dolls..noooooo

You're worse than Mist ... even he would steer clear from the ones that are still playing with Barbie dolls ...

no way !
i accepted cvhatting with someone 5 yrs younger than me. when i refused to cam chat (at the very first hours!) he started being rude, and finally ended up swearing. and that person is from here.

age is important.