OK, so I'm going to be the first 'lady' to step up to the mark it seems.

Once upon a time...not so many years ago... I sought 'intimate encounters'online. The site I used was specifically for such hook-ups.
I would browse the pics, choose my victim and we would meet up.
It became quite tricky when I had to start writing down the meeting times and get from one end of the city to the other in a short space of time

So yeah, it can work, if that is all you are looking for.
For me, it was what I wanted (and thought I needed) at the time. A couple of the guys even became regulars, and no, there was no payment involved.

What did I get out of it?
- Time out of the house
- Got to meet some great people (a few of whom I am still in touch with)
- Confidence boost
- No judgement from parties involved (I know there will be plenty here though)
- And the bonus was I lost a load of weight from all of the exercise

I met my long term FB through that site and I have no regrets there.
So if that is what you are looking for, I would rather people were honest on their profile. It's not what I'm looking for now and I am always disappointed when I get in touch with a guy, swap a couple of emails and then find out that's all they're after. Of course there may be the occasion where people don't realise that's all they are looking for, or they know things aren't going anywhere long term but are attracted to the person so decide to hook-up anyway. But that is down to choice on both parties.

So yeah, judge away. I'm not proud of my past, it suited me at the time, it's not something I care to repeat, but I won't judge those who seek a bit of company from random strangers. In time they will learn that's not what they really need, it's a short term fix for deeper problems, but it can get you on the road to learning more about yourself and starting on the right path (and it's cheaper than therapy!)

The End.

Thats a very good explaination...I am buying it. How is this different from NSA/FWB though?

What's the name of the site, and is it free

OK, so I'm going to be the first 'lady' to step up to the mark it seems.

Once upon a time...not so many years ago... I sought 'intimate encounters'online. The site I used was specifically for such hook-ups.
I would browse the pics, choose my victim and we would meet up.
It became quite tricky when I had to start writing down the meeting times and get from one end of the city to the other in a short space of time

So yeah, it can work, if that is all you are looking for.
For me, it was what I wanted (and thought I needed) at the time. A couple of the guys even became regulars, and no, there was no payment involved.

What did I get out of it?
- Time out of the house
- Got to meet some great people (a few of whom I am still in touch with)
- Confidence boost
- No judgement from parties involved (I know there will be plenty here though)
- And the bonus was I lost a load of weight from all of the exercise

I met my long term FB through that site and I have no regrets there.
So if that is what you are looking for, I would rather people were honest on their profile. It's not what I'm looking for now and I am always disappointed when I get in touch with a guy, swap a couple of emails and then find out that's all they're after. Of course there may be the occasion where people don't realise that's all they are looking for, or they know things aren't going anywhere long term but are attracted to the person so decide to hook-up anyway. But that is down to choice on both parties.

So yeah, judge away. I'm not proud of my past, it suited me at the time, it's not something I care to repeat, but I won't judge those who seek a bit of company from random strangers. In time they will learn that's not what they really need, it's a short term fix for deeper problems, but it can get you on the road to learning more about yourself and starting on the right path (and it's cheaper than therapy!)

The End.

Very interesting to see this from a female point of view....
The only judgement you will get from me is admiration for your honesty and willingness to speak up here on a subject not many women will enter into....

I used to trawl the pubs, but found that online you don't have their friends getting in the way complicating things and I was more likely to meet them when they were sober. Didn't exactly get to know them online, was more...
"are you up for meeting?"
"yeah, you are hot"
"when suits you?"

Having said that the guys who made a little more effort before we met, or between shags, are the ones I still consider to be my friends and I'm still in touch with even though I have moved country.

haha...so many times "trawling" back in the day...Omg...but one of my past relationships started with a one night stand that turned into 5 years...
So I guess...you never know...

It is free for women, men gotta pay to chat and message and read messages, they can look for free though :)

Soooooo......even on a site that is designed for hook-ups, men still have to pay for it? Sheesh! I'll just do it the old fashioned way. Meet her at the club, spend about a hundred on drinks for her, go have sex and then pay her bills for the next six months cause her "stuff" is da bomb.

But on the site you could have multiple ladies for the same cost!

I'm old fashioned so uhhh no, nope, nah. I don't discriminate if that is all you want but know that I want more than that. What I hate most is when I'm treated like a whore, I don't know if it's because I'm Asian or I'm young or is that the norm online. One guys offered to take me on a vacation, take me to shopping, buy me a new phone for sex...and that creeped the hell out of me because we haven't even known each other for a week.

Seriously, old fashioned women do not make this or any other online dating site. They figure its the tool of the devil...lol..So in what way do you consider yourself old fashioned, you young innocent girl....just curious.....

I'm old fashioned so uhhh no, nope, nah. I don't discriminate if that is all you want but know that I want more than that. What I hate most is when I'm treated like a whore, I don't know if it's because I'm Asian or I'm young or is that the norm online. One guys offered to take me on a vacation, take me to shopping, buy me a new phone for sex...and that creeped the hell out of me because we haven't even known each other for a week.

Seriously, old fashioned women do not make this or any other online dating site. They figure its the tool of the devil...lol..So in what way do you consider yourself old fashioned, you young innocent girl....just curious.....

Haha...believe it or not but considering ones self to being old fashioned, is the quite common in Trisha's country of origin....
especially in how courting, dating and conducting relationships happens....
I for one find it quite sweet and an admirable trait....

Haha...believe it or not but considering ones self to being old fashioned, is the quite common in Trisha's country of origin....
especially in how courting, dating and conducting relationships happens....
I for one find it quite sweet and an admirable trait....