Well first off you might want to stop YELLING..

Lol

Like the universe, if only we knew a bit more about it.

This is a good sign that she likes you

Well I would expect it is pretty universal with at least a mild application of culturally appropriateness.

PHD gave you a good example. Each community has etiquette and if you ignore learning the social rules you are probably going to be ignored.

You mention liking to joke around. There is type of humor that fits with family, other's you have known a long time, the guys you work with, and stranger's. Especially someone you hardly know or have crushed on from afar.

At 29 I would expect you to at least have some adult females in your life; siblings, Aunts, a Mother even a grandmother or faith partners that could tutor you, and maybe needs to, if you are still striking out.

Subtle is fine but cowardly is a fail. As is someone who just expects others to hand over the magic combination to how to date.

And the whole myth about some trick to making a woman be madly in love with you is simple; you work at it day in day out by being a worthy potential partner by cultivating skills and talent and being able to meet a real woman's needs; and not just the ones that satiswfys yours.

Maybe you need to watch and learn from your peers that are successful in finding women.

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I HAVE NEVER APPROACHED A LADY AND NEITHER HAS ANY LADY.........WHAT CAN I DO TO PLEASE A LADY?
WHAT MAKES A LADY TO BE MADLY IN LOVE?

dude first you have to approach a girl to know and if you are gonna wait for the day a gal come to you and say she is madly in love with you GOOD LUCK KEEP DREAMING. first you need to talk to her know spend some time and when you think she is comfortable with you tell her what you feel and then let her decide if she loves you she will definately let you know.

A real gentleman should be the first to initiate conversation with a girl with the right approach. Don't wait for the girl to approach you first. Then you will know if she is interested with you, if she gives you her time to get to know you but that doesn't follow that she's into you, could be only giving you a chance and whatever follows is up to you on how you treat her as a woman and what you are as a person. Goodluck in your search!:)

And kindly don't write in BOLD LETTERS it's kindah like you're yelling , authoritative or you are stressing your views too hard......please talk in an even tone and friendly manner :) a soft spoken man is much appreciated

^^^^ This... my ears are ringing

Trying to initiate a romantic connection with a member of the desired sex, is perhaps the most terrifying enterprise that a person can attempt. Amusingly enough, there are many wars that have been conducted, simply to allow the warriors to avoid talking to the women they wanted directly. Instead, they hoped to be so impressive in battle, that the women would come to them.

I sympathize strongly.

Suggestions:

start by working on yourself, to calm down as much as you can. Nervousness and fear just get in the way.

then focus on knowing yourself as well as you can, but not in "deep and meaningful ways," just in simple things, like how you like to spend your non-work hours, what you enjoy eating, what you have fun doing. Those are the things that will lead you most assuredly to both who you will get along with, and provide you with the kind of little things to do on dates, which will allow you to enjoy yourself with the other person.

One thing I can't help you much on, is how to tell if a woman is interested or not. It's not JUST that women don't act like men (we hope), it's also that pretty much every human suffers from the cultural challenge, that showing open adoration for a relative stranger, instantly makes a person seem to be either fools, or players.

PhD I don't think he heard you! LOL

Perhaps you have to YELL back ....or sign ...or something...lol...