okay my baby's father got out of jail yesterday. and i know where his mom lives and i think he is stayin with her. now should i go over there and ask for him or should i just wait for him to find me? he still hasn't seen our little girl.

i'd say to call himand then if he wants to see her then go over there and let him see her.

Hon, if he wants to see her he'll find you, don't go looking for unnecesary hurt! And if he was in jail do you really want him around your daughter? Just be careful sweetie!

i think your first stop really should be at your local child support enforcement office. Then i would be as careful as possible. I have a feeling YOU want to see him more than he wants to see you. Just being honest lilone.

Oi Barbie...hugs!!

I think you should focus on your baby. Stop, thinking about him!

If he is really interested in you, he would have been there to see you and baby by now! Get the hint?

well does he know that you have a baby together? If he does and he really wants to be a part of that hen he will find you, put your energy into your daughter, and things will work themselves out!

It hurts to still be in love with him doesn't it? The best thing that you can do for your daughter is like Barbie said..go and seek child support.
Don't use your daughter to try and keep this man around..so many women do that and its going to end up hurting you and your daughter in the end. Ask yourself one question...would you be better off without this man in your life? I am sure your answer is yes...so move on sweetie!!
Get your daughter the child support that she deserves and forget the loser!!
Good luck

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but also say

do not hit bee hive with stick

if not want stung

He is just out of jail and he's HORNEY just what you absolutely do NOT need to expose yourself to; another back to back prenancy. You take your baby around his Grandma and she wants to take your baby what you going to do then? You are a teenage mother and they are legal adults. That is the only place he has to live do you think he is going to tell her no? Do you think he is going to pay childsupport if he can get custody and let grandma collect the welfare for his rent? How many times you going to ask the same question? Until someone agrees with your little girl fantasy and tells you he is suddenly going to be Prince Charming or are you going to wise up?

One thing I have learned is that you can not make someone be a father if they don't want to be. Think about your daughter and HER interests, not his. A mothers job is to keep her children safe.

Pacific, what does her age have to do with anything? Even if she is under age, she still has a child, meaning she is LEGALLY LEGAL. No-one can take a child from the mother just because the mother is under 18.