unsure, I think I know what you are tryng to say, but resepectfully suggest your life has become a habit you're not willing to change or bend. I think it sad also that you regard having a man in your life as "messing up your peaceful existence" I don't want to live my life safely, peacefully, quietly...I want the excitement, the pounding of my heart, I want to feel again

lil...

I agree with everything you've said. I want it ALL. I won't settle for anything less again.

This all sounds good on paper and I don't want to be negative. But, seems like people do get what they want and it is wonderful for awhile. Then, things are taken for granted, small problems are
made into road blocks, etc. and the good stuff is forgotten. Then folks move on to the next person and the cycle starts all over again.

Finding a woman who does mind if the toilet seat is left up would be nice.

LOL @ Looking!

Hey---I've never put the seat up for any man, so don't expect a man to put it down for me. I am capable of looking to see if it is down for myself.

I agree this all sounds good on paper, but I still believe it is possible, though I don't think it just happens. It's a work of love in constant progress

What I see are a lot of broken hearts and disillusioned spirits. I've had my disappointments, some I thought were going to nearly do me in, but I refuse to allow them to define what I what from and what I can bring to a relationship.

This does sound good but I'd like to add in... throw in some spice...some adventure.....

I'm all for spice and adventure, but this coming from a mind whose head is on fire, I think I might need further explanation of 'spice and adventure'

ohhhhhhhhhhh thats eric my imaginary bf making me a hot dog......now that's spicey!!!

It does not keep us from hoping that a match is out there! If there were no hope this site would be nearly empty (of women anyway)! Yes I want spice, laughter joy, I want all of it! I just have to take the bad with the good, that's where we communicate and communicate and be honest with one another, I guess, I really don't know anymore.

I really hope that I find that!

I met a really great guy yesterday and we spent the whole day and night talking and watching movies. He was a tad shy at first, but the more we talked, the more electricity seemed to stir up. He's frickin gorgeous, and very sweet and fun to be around. There's no promises that anything will come of it, but I am happy takin it a day at a time and getting to know him. He's very unique, he's kinda got a hippie/Rastafarian thing goin on. Which is really great, b/c thats exactly what most of my friends are like. I met him off of here, but he lives so close to me we probably woulda run into each other anyway at some point. We didn't try to develop a relationship over the damn computer...lol, we just got a little acquainted so we'd be more comfortable when we met and turns out we had a really great time! We fell asleep talking and he just left like 15 minutes ago. My nephew and my cats seem to like him too I can't wait to see him again!

Really happy for you Jayme!

I'll be seeing him again soon, I'm sure of it. I have Wednesday and Thursdays free every week, so we may just go do something then.

I'll be seeing him again soon, I'm sure of it. I have Wednesday and Thursdays free every week, so we may just go do something then.

i just wanna find a gal that will share counter space in the bathroom.!!!!!!! lol

we're workin on plans for next time as we speak

i want a guy to grow old with and share my life with, but coming to realize that sometimes we rush things and do not see straight. just going to concentrate on writing, work, family, moving especially with the holiday season coming up.

I just want a cold diet pepsi..

awe CCP-- if i lived close i would certainly get you one!!

I want a mango.