Best of luck to you Pacific Star.....

((((widowerseeking))))

I gotta go along with Widower on this one, it can and does happen -- I was fortunate enough to have been there for awhile myself, and nothing has ever compared to it -- I do admit to having some doubts about how realistic it is to believe it could ever happen TWICE to the same person -- but you never know....??

This sounds really nice actually

It does sound wonderful, if you find it; but I must say that you are looking at it the wrong way - too one sided. All for you and none for him.... I sounds like you want a butler-servant more than a friend, lover and husband... we too would like some attentions once in a while - reasures us that we are wanted, care for and loved... remember everything in a relation is a two way street!

wow- sounds wonderful

i want the same plus share laughter---laughing so hard until it makes your stomach hurt, cooking together in the kitchen, and maybe even finding the toilet seat up.....

you women are watching too much Oprah

i never watch TV

I don't know that just don't sound to good to me either. It sounds more like a trap...sounds kind of like a habit. Maybe I am so content with my life that I just don't want to be bothered with a man coming into my life and messing up my pieceful exitance??
I think right now, I have it made. I have one son left at home and if I don't want to cook..I don't have to. So, that brings me to this conclusion...why would I want someone in my life fulltime? HMMM I don't think I do...this is why I am only looking for friends.
I guess I am at that point in my life to where I am happy and content with being single. BUT I hope that every one of you find what you are looking for

Lilbug, know exactly what you mean. I miss all of that also.
Yes, when we guys break thru our macho image & take the risk of admitting. We all want that special relationship, special feeling, special position to sleep in.

You brought a tear to my eye.

Hope you all find EXACTLY that.

It IS possible to find...for each and every one of us. I won't allow myself to think any other way. I agree with what lilbug and Cleo & Joyce have described. But I also want a little debate over things we don't see eye to eye on...(difference of opinions is what makes the world go 'round!). I'll let him win every once in awhile during one of our wrestling matches . I'll help him build the weekend project, whatever that may be. I'll scrub his back after he's scrubbed mine . I will give him his space to do his thing as he will do for me, (we aren't attached to the hip ya know!). He shows a true interest in what I have to say, how I am feeling and my every desire and he knows the feeling is mutual!

He is out there somewhere...I hope to reel my keeper in soon.

i agree shutterbug---
i prefer someone who has his own opinions on things!
everything you wrote is perfect.

i also agree he is somewhere out there. although at sometimes it seems like a lost cause, i never give up hope.

i agree shutterbug---
i prefer someone who has his own opinions on things!
everything you wrote is perfect.

i also agree he is somewhere out there. although at sometimes it seems like a lost cause, i never give up hope.

I demand respect. I demand honesty. I demand tolerance. I demand acceptance, and if that is unavailable, nor capable of being reciprocated, I don't want................ you.

I am sure there is somebody for everybody!

I remember the days like shutterbug said. Helping with weekend projects, cutting grass and somebody stopping you and giving you some ice tea.

Paint fights when your painting the living room......or bed room!!!!

Meals that have meaning instead of what can I zap tonight for dinner!

Ahhhhhh, those were the days!

Awwww ((((((Lee))))))

Here I am....................2 million miles away!!

(((this is all very possible)))

<-----wants this 2 but insted of a move wwe

i would love this thanks for posting

I disagree izzynavi, I can't have all of that if there isn't a man right there sharing it all with me....so how is that one-sided? Neither partner can have any of that if we aren't paying attention to the needs of one another.