what does "self realization " mean to you with regards to dating /relationships???

Does it help to hold on to the person / let go of a person?

What is your opinion?

A partner shouldn't hold you back in your self-realisation. They should support you, stimulate you. Doesn't have to be by actually doing something, sometime they do that by not doing anything. Just being and letting us be.

And however weird it sounds, a bad relationship helps self-realisation too. Possibly even more so than a really good one, especially if you still have to learn a lot about yourself. So in the earlier stages of self-realisation.

ladywind i msged u my opinion!!!!

I know, I am busy honey. Wait in line

If u already know it!!!! I am not in your line

fooling with you. I am writing poetry, got to embrace my muse when she calls lol.

Self realization for me means a process of knowing your true self, your dreams & aspirations, wants and needs in life wherein achieving this level of self awareness of who you are and what you are, brings you fulfillment , true happiness and inner peace.

Yes, self realization helps you recognize the reality of life whether you want to let go or hold on to the person. It helps you come up with a decision on what you really want in life, through a process of knowing the pros and cons, weighing the value of that particular person in your life , do you love him or not, can you live without him or not, will you have a good life with him or not, does your relationship help you both grow as a better person......will having him stay in your life brings you happiness or not? Self realization only happens when you already know what you want deep in your heart after knowing all these things.

Realizing whether or not your self wants to date/be in a relationship with the other person.


Yes if you are dating the other person.
No, if you want to date the other person but they don't want to date you.