Topic: Ok another question lol
TheShadow's photo
Fri 10/19/07 07:43 PM
sin and willy laugh not going there

it don't make me made but it does make me really curious knowing they don't like me and not everyone is going to like me and I except that. it's like and it is how it's always going to be. Ill just keep being me hehe

willy_cents's photo
Fri 10/19/07 07:43 PM
shadow, I understand where you are coming form on the last. I have noticed that a few of the ppl on here are very envious of anyone who finds "someone." If they are only looking, however, don't let it bother you. If they are contacting you, one way or another..then I would surely block their butts in a heartbeat.

no photo
Fri 10/19/07 07:45 PM
I am gonna click on the TheShadow and be the new profile stalker haha

Tarnakk4's photo
Fri 10/19/07 07:45 PM
Maybe it's not that they expect to find something fake - maybe they're expecting to find a way to convince you to take them. *laughs* Or, possibly, they're just the fantasy type, and they check the profile whenever they're dreaming about you.

*grins* I've had a few of those in my time - though not so many as I'd like. Like willy said, it is an obscure and (in my words) somewhat revolting form of compliment. But it's no worse than someone you're not interested in eyeing you across a bar. Only better, because it's harder for them to figure out that they're getting under your skin.

laugh :tongue: With any luck, though, maybe this post will deter them.glasses

TheShadow's photo
Fri 10/19/07 07:45 PM
laugh I think I like the idea of them being tormented by my precens laugh

TheShadow's photo
Fri 10/19/07 07:46 PM
sin laugh laugh Thanks for the laugh :wink:

Ok so everyone know. this person does not like me. so figure it out from there laugh

oldsage's photo
Fri 10/19/07 07:49 PM
Just put them on ignore. Your just too cool shadow.

TheShadow's photo
Fri 10/19/07 07:52 PM
Hey oldsage, good to see you and thanksdrinker

Tarnakk4's photo
Fri 10/19/07 07:52 PM
*laughs* Oh, that's even better! I can just imagine them sitting there, boiling over while staring at the account. Maybe it's a little evil of me, but I'd take it as an excuse to laugh. If they want to spend time and energy hyperventillating in private, I say let them. Course, I am a pirate... happy

willy_cents's photo
Fri 10/19/07 07:55 PM
I suppose we should ask, shadow, is it a guy or is it a ladie....one is cool the other maybe not cool. that would definitely affect my response....lol

no photo
Fri 10/19/07 07:56 PM
I am safe, I am only a flower, who would love me but another of me kind lol Maybe I need to borrow your profile for a day TheShadow to see what happens. happy

no photo
Fri 10/19/07 08:16 PM
maybe your thier long lost relative and they don't know how to break the news, or maybe the own a circus and want to hire you , or maybe thier computor has a mind of it's own and is stocking you, or maybe thier wanted by the f.b.i.and want to take over your identity. or maybe they just like you.,lol. have you thought to ask that person why?

LAMom's photo
Fri 10/19/07 08:19 PM
Awwwwwwwww sweetie,, let them perv your profile,, your an incredible person and you life is filled with happiness,, bask in your glory and your new love,,, live life to the fullest,,, Hugs to you flowerforyou flowerforyou

TheShadow's photo
Fri 10/19/07 08:42 PM
LAMom bigsmile and to the rest of you. thanks for your opinions. Hell some of them were really funny.


Hm, to answer willy. If it was a guy. Id be really scared right now laugh

Marie55's photo
Fri 10/19/07 09:20 PM
Willy, you can look at profiles of people of your same sex and it does not show up as you having viewed their profiles, only people of the opposite sex will show you as having viewed them, so it would have to be a woman viewing Shadow's profile.

Shadow, Is it possible she is an ex-friend of Serena's who is jealous and looking to maybe make trouble for her later on? - (I have heard of this happening recently to another couple) I would just block her. It sounds like jealousy. She could just be jealous and keep viewing to see if you have new pictures up of the two of you, pics showing her pregnancy yet, maybe pics showing where you are moving to, your new home, etc., (another reason to block - if they want to cause you trouble). That is my 2 cents on the subject, but does sound like a jealousy issue to me. Take care and have a safe move.

feralcatlady's photo
Fri 10/19/07 09:23 PM
I would ignore...and be flattered that for some reason they can't get enough at looking at your cutiful self.

TheShadow's photo
Fri 10/19/07 09:30 PM
Thanks Marie. but no it has nothing to do with any one that knows Serena. if I said who it was it would cause big time drama on the forum. I could block her and be done with her looking at my profile but I have nothing to hide or be fake about. I wish she would just email me and tell me why she looks at my profile so much, knowing she don't like me. You know the curious part of just wanting to know in what waht are they getting anything out of this. If she thinks it driving me nuts laugh she is way off. The thing is. even though it might look like it's bothing me but It's. It's actually kinda funny because there is nothing they can do or say to me or my gf that would change anything that is goin gon in our lives if that is what shje is looking for. Hmm, maybe some day Ill find out when she is brave enough to email me laugh

TheShadow's photo
Fri 10/19/07 09:32 PM
feralcatladylaugh Thank you. it's kinda funny now looking at things I come a long what being on this site and it's all been for the better. tell you what. being real really pays off in the long run now matter what anyone says:wink:

feralcatlady's photo
Fri 10/19/07 09:39 PM
It totally does shadow....and believe me you will be loved in the end more for keeping it real and just being honest.....I find liers boring and frankly think its a waste.....to much work to keep track of.....I am and have been told that if you don't want the truth don't ask Debbie..giggle.....so yea....be honest, keep it real....and you will be loved....

TheShadow's photo
Fri 10/19/07 09:48 PM
It's meeting people like you and everyone I have met on this site that will make me come back. Hell it's hard to get rid of me laugh