Topic: i just asked someone out
adamxa's photo
Fri 10/19/07 04:53 PM
just as a friend. to go out and chill and stuff. and she said no..
i mean i just got the confidant's to ask someone out in a long time.

why would someone say no to hanging out with someone as a friend?
im confused huh

Tim's photo
Fri 10/19/07 04:59 PM
maybe she thought you wanted more... in my experience most women thought that way... not all but most of them do... i betcha i will get alot of flak for that statement lollaugh

wouldee's photo
Fri 10/19/07 04:59 PM
rejection is cool...you don't have to live up to anything! try it more often and you'll see what I mean. smokin drinker devil

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Fri 10/19/07 05:04 PM
Maybe she just was'nt interested in going out with you...

Don't give up- there are other ladies to ask out on a friend
date.

There could be many reason's why she said no... ohwell

no photo
Fri 10/19/07 05:07 PM
did you state your intentions?? did you say "lets hang out and do something just as friends"???

no photo
Fri 10/19/07 05:07 PM
Dont take it to heart man. At least she said no, and not say yes and then stand you up. I get stood up a lot.

adamxa's photo
Fri 10/19/07 05:10 PM
yeah of course i stated my intentions.
thats why i was kinda of shocked when she said no i dont think so.
then she kept saying "im sorry" all day after i was cool with it.


Puffins1958's photo
Fri 10/19/07 05:11 PM
I wouldn't loose heart...

There are plenty of friends you could have here, one never knows where a friendship could lead....

Good luck next time!!!!


Bearsman's photo
Fri 10/19/07 05:17 PM
Don't get angry, it may turn you to the DARK SIDE!!

LuckyMe81's photo
Fri 10/19/07 05:35 PM
Depends on how long you've known her. Some women like to go hang out and do things after a few days of knowing you. I know I do. I don't want to jump straight in...

Bearsman's photo
Fri 10/19/07 05:36 PM
Perhaps you think you've been treated unfairly!

Angelsing's photo
Fri 10/19/07 05:44 PM
She's just not feelin you, but that dosen't mean you can't find someone that will. There is someone for everyone, right?

We have all been there and we know it hurts but keep on looking.

As soon as you find someone who does care about you, this girl will mean nothing to you.flowerforyou

no photo
Fri 10/19/07 05:47 PM
Just move on and find a woman who will appreciate you. People get turned down every day and you just need to keep your head up and move along. If I got upset every time I've been turned down I would probably be in a pine box by now.drinker