Hey pals...am Samuel..aka shegsky. The purpose of this thread is to improve our dating game; and if you are having any dating bottle-necks..you can tell us here and get your advice. First things first..please no insults..if you don't like a post,simple ignore it. Let's help one another. Am gonna be posting stuffs that have worked for me over the Years. Thankx for stopping by.

Gonna be kicking this thread off with a basic concept. YOUR inner Game. That's basically about your beliefs or how you see your yoursef. Your sense of worth and other stuffs relating to Your inner pysche. Do you see yourself as ugly, tall, short, etc..well.if you are having a limiting belief..u need to fix dat first. Because in the long run..its gonna affect how you relate to girl...basically ur outer-game. More on that later.

Have you ever seen a crazy chick u would like to meet.but you were just so scared you could'nt even look her in the eye or say Hi..?..well I guess you have... Do you have a chick you wana get all cosy with?..but you don't just know how or she keeps rejecting your moves. Pls note. Am not talking about prostitutes here...I mean real chicks.

So we kick It off wit FMAC....FMAC is an acronym for Find Meet Attract Close.

Find-- this is basically the part where you have to look for the chick, be it online, or one-on one

Meet- this is the part where you open the chick.. Or say hi. A simple line I crafted myself that works all the time is "" hey..hi..I have seen u around a few times, but we havent met...am <insert ur name here>"" #smile...u can move ahead from there. Note its ur delivery that matters..you may or may not use d same exact words.u can frame it around to something that suits you.

Attract -- this is d part where you ease her and make her relax using different methods. Humour,buying temperation,teasing,role play etc

Close- this is the part where you get her contacts or you move the convo to a different location. Closing can also mean s**x too. So it all despends on your time constraints.

Note..you don't have to be Goodlooking...Just be LOooking GOOOD.

Hi friends..u can start
posting ur dating issues or any area you having problems...

I will do my best to help. Guys take dis..
Here is a working line I crafted. It works in populated places like your school department, motion grounds..or places
where you have lots of
peeps..going up and down.

""Hi, excuse me, I know this is really forward of me, but I was going to regret it if I didn't say dis..I think you are
amazing cute..and I just had to say hello""

U can also remix it like dis

....""Hi.I saw u walking past, and ur dress sense attracted me....what dept are u"
blah blah..or just introduce yourself. This line works cos an inherent excuse is
already embedded in it. Note ,you don't have to use the exact wordings...but if you want to..Go ahead.It works. You can also
remix it anyhow you like.

By d way..never approach a babe from behind. It sucks..it
makes you seem like a
nuisance. She might just be like "" who the Bleep is this again"

Always approach.head on..with a smile..or coming from adjacent her. And Note, never take an approach too
serious..Go out there and catch fun. And please don't
forget ...""YOU DONT Av TO be
GOOdLOOKINg...JUst be
LOOking GOOd".. lols

I will be talking about emotional investment now. You see ..emotional investment is what makes a guy regret or lament after a breakup. It is no longer news that "" the one who invests more in a relationship or dating cover or chat, is d one that is more attracted" . Simple as ABC. Do you call her more than ten times a day and she barely flashes you or sends you pls call me?..my guy..you are the one that is more invested. Are you the one doing stuffs for her all the time?...you send her credit, call her, say hi, you are the one always starting the chat..my Guy..you are the one that is more invested. ...you see ..the basic stuff is this..once a girl is invested in U..she automatically likes U. Girls don't decide whether they wanna like a guy or not.

Attraction with a girl is emotional. If you like, buy her shawarma tire..if she no feel u..she no go like U. So my advice for you is this...Reduce your rate of emotional investment..and make her do some work. Relax and chil, don't call her for a while..give her d gift of missing u. Stop spending ur cash anyhow..when you know she aint feeling U. The person that invests little is the one that calls the short. No wonder..haha..if the babe say she doesnt wanna see u..or she is not interested again..after u don do lots of tins for her..u go begin cry like small pikin..#justjoking.. And don't forget. Sex is the greatest investment.
Unto the next one.pals.

Ok..What does casual dating mean exactly...?.... it seems to have a bad connotation behind it.. like somehow all the person is after is sex..
But it has been my experience this is not true..... so what does casual dating mean exactly..?.. roll that around in your noodle for a little while..lol

Hey Shegsky....can I call you Shegsky?....just curious....if you have such great "dating game", why are you on a dating website?

Well for starters, stop using the word "chicks". IF you want a lasting, true relationship then TREAT HER WITH RESPECT! She is a woman or a lady, NOT a chick.

well.. I sort of know you! and the thought of approaching you from behind makes my head spin..mmmmmm..wink

^^ This Mell.

suppose we could source our Material?

http://www.nairaland.com/1553594/improve-dating-game-here-see

there is no magic formula for 'closing' EVERY woman, sure there are some things that may work on MOST women.

However, personally I don't want MOST women, I want that special woman, and for her nothing generic will work, you need to treat her as unique and special which she is.

if you use the same generic rhetoric as everyone else...you are no longer unique and special yourself, which is most likely what she is looking for, and you probably just killed any hopes of you had of 'closing' with the one you wanted most

Dude....these lame pick up lines may work where you come from in Africa, but here in the west they are laughable...
Most common response to lines like that is.....f**k off loser....

Cheers though great laugh

Never ever ask a girl if she has a bf.. Because she already knows what you are tryna elicit.. If she is cute n hot..she wil most likely reply with yes... if she doesn't have..she will still say yes. No babe wants to be considered a lady without a bf. Assuming she says yes..then what next?..u gona reply..oh...thats cool..which makes u appear weak and not manly. If she says no..she already knows you wanna propose. Let her bring up d topic her sef..she will most likely bring it when she is getting attracted to u. And when she doest..just act like its nothing..ignore it. Or just laugh and say..you are not the jealous type. the point is..don't stay on the bf topic. Move to something else. She is only telling you she has a bf..herself..so u don't think she is cheap or easy. Dats the psychology. The quicker you grab it..the better.

#Attraction is not Logical. Its Emotional.

Some few tips friends.

There are always more women out there...so be a challenge...have this mentality of absolute abundance..and stop killing yourself over one babe. There are lots of cute babes out there.
Don't care or give a Bleep what she tinks about u..just attract her. Simple as abc.. Remove d focus from yourself and focus ur mental beams on her.
Whatever method u are using, make it look spontaeneous...not pre-meditated.
Its the act dat gets u women..not the act it self....stop thinking about the s***x too much and focus on the little things that u will do..to get u there. Focus on the process..Not the outcome.

Hey guys take this.... have used this a couple of times... you are talking to a girl and she aint responding at all....
#hey are u robot or something....""#where is ur remote control""
that usually cracks 'em up.
Don't be a nuisance though. You see the problem with us guys is that, most times when a girl doesn't respond we tend to push it too hard. Several times, an unresponsive girl might just be going through lots of personal issues that are unrelated to you. Its not about your game...the girl might not just be in a good mood. So don't push too hard... Just smile....about it. Don't get angry or insult her in anyway.

Don't focus on your shortcomings ...its better to focus on ur good qualities. Most guys give demselves 1000 and 1 reasons and excuses why they can't get a girl or date one. Ignore ur limiting beliefs and just go for it. Women find attraction by how a man makes dem feel.
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Insecurity is always un-attractive. Don't assume everyone sees ur shortcomins...ur height, face , legs..etc.
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A guy can be attractive wen he controls his presence.

Let's talk about how to build rapport. Rapport building wit a chick can be fun..like seriously..u know u..just jumping from one thread to anoda..applying humour and different teasing techniques.
Its essential u don't ignore d stage of rapport building with a new chick...cos if u ignore dis step..u will always start all-over from square one. What do u tink makes a chick reply u wit:
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""oh..sorry..we aint dat close yet" ..or y do u think she always flakes on u..wenever u wana invite her?
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Or she gives u always stops u wen u wana go for the kiss or sth...
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Building rapport will make a chick..open up to u...rapport building tips..applied wit crazy attraction tecniques will get her thinking u r a bf alredy.without even asking her out...

lol....that's all I can do...post a pic of you kissing Jessica Alba......then...and only then will I start taking notes

Pls note: all rapport techniques must be sincere. Am not a fan of the school that believes in lies to get a girl. If you like lie say your Dad is BILL GATE. If she aint feeling u...she aint bro. Being truthful matters..so she doesn't flake on u later wen she realizes tha "" wow.so you are just from the slum..

Here are some funny questions I have used with success..
So..what do u do for fun <insert her name>?
- most chicks will reply wit their hobbies or sth along the lie...
If u wana spice it up..some more...u can use... ""So what do u do for fun..don't say shopping oh""#smile..or add a funny smiley if u r chatting wit her.

Where did u grow up?

Are u like a middle born..or sth...?..u don't appear like last born to me though #dis question wil always open her up abt her family...show true appreciation for her family...tell her abt urs too...u can end it up..wit ...

" Lucy....u ve got a very interesting family..wow.. I love ur mum" dat will get her suprised..lols....

If she asks y..just tell her..her mum did a gud job..bringing a cute chick like her into d world..or sth along dat line.
#other cool questions
If she describes an event or sth dat happend to her..don't forget to ask.."How did dat make u feel" trust me..u can't over-use it. Ladies are all about..the passion...and how sth makes dem feel. A girl can buy a fancy stuff..not becos she likes it..but just becos of d way it makes her feel....


#to be continued