To the best of my knowledge,Casual dating or a casual relationship is a physical and emotional relationship between two people who may have casual sex or a near-sexual relationship without necessarily demanding or expecting the extra commitments of a more formal romantic relationship. Although, Motives for casual relationships vary.

Am on a Dating site cos i believe in the phenomenon Termed " Knowledge Sharing "

Knowledge Sharing is not like sharing a cake - you do not come away with half a cake each. Knowledge Sharing is synergistic. In other words - you each enter into a conversation with a whole cake and each come away with an even bigger cake.

Sharing knowledge is not about giving people something, or getting something from them. That is only valid for information sharing. Sharing knowledge occurs when people are genuinely interested in helping one another develop new capacities for action; it is about creating learning processes and in doing these , i derive maximum utility in it.

You are on point Ma . I agree with you on these.

Continuation...Rapport Tips

If she mentions an experience or sth dat happened to her..u can follow up wit. ""What was it like?""
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What do u find challenging abt ur work..school..blah blah?
What do u find challenging abt cooking....etc
What do u find challenging abt X...
Where X can be cooking, dancing,her work,swimming, a particular hobbie she mentioned...etc
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If she says she is a nurse, makeup artiste..blah blah..u can ask..." So what inspired u to become...blah blah"
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Get her to open Up to u..and make sure u use active listening.
Avoid red flags..or sticking points..wen u can listen actively to a babe..u can tell what topics she is pounding on and d once she is avoiding.
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I used these rapport tips on a chick..and she ended up telling me one of her secrets.. She was raped @ age 12 by one of her older cousins. It was a touchy topic for her, and she ended up crying. Well..I just had to avoid the topic all togeda..made her laf, and in no time..she was even laughing amid her tears.
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Avoid red flags...
Notice her points of interests and feed on them.

Keanote: u can use these concepts whether u r talking wit her one on one..or chatting wit her on fbook,whatsapp..bbm..blah blah
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So friends, thats just about active listening...if she says sth she is proud of,repeat it to her, don't just av a blank still look, don't interrupt her until she is done.

The BEST TOPIC U CAN TALK ABOUT WIT A GIRL...is herself.
Talk her about her, show genuine interest.
She..--yea I am aving a great day...chillin tins tho..
You-- oh..a great day..I see u r aving fun alredy...so wat r u cooking today?...
Blah blah...bounce to a different thread..based on her replies.
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You can also echo and mirror her words. I like dis one wella..hehe.
E.g.
Clara - it was a tough exam...really tough..I just had to do ma best.
You-- yea..It was a tough exam..but u survived...congrats..
#repeat d main point...wit a different wording..always make sure ..u keep the convo goin..don't get ur sef into a deadzone

I like turtles and clueless people that like to talk to themselves!

Attraction is emotional not logical. Its not a yes or no thing. Ever asked a chick out and she tells u yes...?..den later she tells u..she has a bf..an ex..dat she is trying to forget?...well...she stil feels dat gut level attraction for her ex..and not You.
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Av u gotten her digit,..maybe online or real one-on-one convo?.. Then make sure u call her or send a txt withing 24 hours. Don't stay too long, she myt just forget abt u. I usualy send them a tx..
"Hey dear, hope u got home safely..it was fun meeting u early...mz smiling face"
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Don't stay too long.. So she doesn't forget abt u..and she asks "who is dis" wen u finally call her.
Also.make sure u guys exchange nbrs...don't just get her nbr..if dere is time,get her fone and save ur nbr in it...get her nbr too..u can simply exchange fones.

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Don't be clueless

Better advice: Don’t take dating advice from a guy who types like this.