im blunt n i give em the "its not u its me"

so here we have a typical example of male mentality....he comes online with a question he has no intention of listening to any answer for.


he already knew what he was going to say to her...he just needed a platform to solicit himself...and sorry to say he made it clear early on in this thread what a jerk he is. but did that keep anyone from posting??

you all read just what is barely under your noses and don't see what's really going on here.

if he wanted to let her down easy, would he post a thread humiliating her?? ...she can see it ...it's on the frikkin front page....


geeeeeeeeezzzzzzzzeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Git a rope

looked to me like he was universally getting a message to someone who he did not have the balls to say "I am not into you in that way" without being an a**hole about it. I could be wrong though it has been known to happen

Ya....there really was nothing easy about that let down....I thought it to be very cruel...

wow i have to agree with everyone on the post how dare he say that to someone, its not a very good feeling to be told ur not the one, but to say it the way he did, was plain rude.

With compassion.

why easy?


j/k

well, ya dont' have to use kid gloves, but you don't have to be harsh either... However, with the fact that he's only 18, shes probably pretty young and fragile, and I'm sure someone as ugly as him turning her down didn't do her self esteem any good.

pfft me ugly look in the mirror

jayme you have no right to put him down hes a damn good friend and hey by the way you may want to stay home because that mask thats permanantly stuck to u may very well scare small children or if u really have to go out...the paper bag IS your friend

...ouch.

paintrain you want people to be nice to you and girls to respond to your emails. You even asked if girls like fat guys. You obviously know you are not God's gift to the ladies. You come across as really insecure and impatient. I remember when we spoke via email I told you not to give up because you are young and attractive and you said girls your age didn't find you attractive. Stop being such a jerk. It's not so much what's on the outside dear. Your attitude really stinks. You freak out, flip out and lash out when people show you that you need to handle things in a nicer more mature way. Do you really want advice? I don't think you do. I think you are extremely childish. You want people to be nice to you but you don't know how to be nice to other people.

i totally disagree with your remark saturn i've been talking to him and it seems to me hes the complete oposite those who dont like him well its a huge loss to them

what the hell? I lashed out when? one time... i'm insecure how? i asked a poll did i say OMG IM FAT NO GIRLS LIKE ME. you're taking that way too far... show where i'm insecure here? and i am god's gift to women.

what the hell? I lashed out when? one time... i'm insecure how? i asked a poll did i say OMG IM FAT NO GIRLS LIKE ME. you're taking that way too far... show where i'm insecure here? and i am god's gift to women.

Just say "sorry" i don't think we will work out and wish them luck in what they are looking for.

just forget it hun these *****es are all stupid

saturn isn't completely wrong shadow_princess, she's been the brunt of his verbal abuse before. honestly, all you have to do is read what he posts to get a picture of the way he is. and your remarks to jayme weren't any better, quite frankly. i think jayme was partly kidding and you took it way out of hand.

yea well if you joke around about someone maybe you should watch what you say especially if you're as ugly as she is