Don't flatter yourself dude, she's just using you for money, the sex she's getting from elsewhere & you aint man enough to give it to her right anyway

If you love her and can't be without her why not propose?

Sounds like you have picked your poison so now all you have to decide is do you let it kill you slowly or quickly? Either way is going to continue to be painful if you consider sharing sex and money painful. In the reality of the real world that is generally expected when a man and woman are partners.

Just wondering why did you let your relationship go further for more than 5 years thinking that she is just using you for sex and money? Why do you allow her to do that to you? Do you really love her or you just give what she wants to satisfy your own needs too? Im confused who's using who in your relationship? You can't do without her because you love her or only because you need her for your own selfish desire or for sexual gratification also? If you really love her, you would have proposed marriage already? Did you? Just some thoughts to ponder on:)

In a relationship with love and not just sex only, money shouldn't be involved unless if necessary for emergency. Using the money and lavish it on her to keep her stay with you and satisfy you sexually is definitely not love, she's accepting everything you give coz she could be a materialistic girl? If she truly loves you, she wouldn't let you give her money coz that could be an insult for her dignity as a woman treating her like a whore.

Nobody can tell you what to do. The decision must come from within you after a thorough realization......do you really love her or not? Can you do without her in your life? Are you ready to let her go?

Good luck!:)

Man I have been reading ur posts- sounds like u live a dream.

To be very honest with all of you, it sucks.

Sorry, anyone can do with out anyone. As you state you know she is using for sex and money... In the beginning it was her fault if you allow this to continue then the blames lies with you.

Find your backbone and call a halt to it. Find your self esteem.

If you don't value yourself no one else will either.

see the curb by the concrete. well use it place her there and walk away. Don't look back.
personally I think you know the answer to the question.
it's up to you to do what you should do.
ask yourself what do you deserve? what do you want?

This may sound callous
but you and the girl deserves each other.
5 years?
Money & just sex?

You cannot get over her?
Even if for 5 years she is just
using you for money & sex?

Something is really wrong.
And not just with the girl,
if I may be upfront.
I mean you.
To allow her to do that to you.
No. I wont believe you that
you are in love with the girl.
If you really love her and care for
her, you will move heaven & earth
to stop her from being that way.
Even if you will hurt her in the process.
Love does not gratify.
Love corrects. Love disciplines.
Love does not corrupts.
Real love let go,
if there is no other best
course of action for both individuals
to grow & be a better person.

hai

I don't think there is any reason for you to keep the relationship for five good years., since you know she only wants money and sex from you... Relationship depends on the way u laid the foundation.. And u should have discovered this long time back.. If you truly love her , you can make her love you wholeheartedly apart from the love of money and other one she have for you now.. Go on propose to her and make her feel the true love you have for her..

My advise to you is set her on the road. Let her go. If you marry her she will lead you to nothing but misery and heartbreak. I've been where you are. I'm speaking from experience. In this late age I can say that I never really loved a woman as much as the last woman I was with.

I put up with a lot of crap out of her. There is a piece of me that will always love this woman. But I know in my heart I can't live with her. I know that if I try to live with her she will drag me down with her. You are in a situation where you have fallen for the wrong woman. It happens to all of us at least one point in our lives.

The hard part is learning when to let go. When a relationship is one sided, it's time to let go. That's where you are right at the moment. And it will not get any better. This woman is showing you where she stands with you. If you marry her it will only get worse.

You're not the only man to ever love the wrong woman. But don't let her make a fool of you any farther. The way it sounds to me, She already has no respect for you. If all you are saying is true. And you don't mind being made a fool of, Have at it. You think you are paying now? You ain't seen nothing yet. Get her knocked up and see what happens.

worddd

You're spot on.

word I agree

Why for you love her, dude?

If you really love her, then how can you think about her like that?

Why are you seeking stranger's advice for treating your BELOVED one?

Are you some utensil to get utilized by somebody?

to be honest.. I'm single B-)

Why do you need to be single for being honest...?? (joking)

Well, it'll only get worse.