Most (Not all) men & women, when given an opportunity or when an opportunity arises, would love to have an affair after marriage, but generally, it is for very different reasons and thus they hardly work.

Reasons for having an extra marital affair :


FOR MEN:

1. Need for more sex than what wife has to offer. This is the reason in most of the cases.

2. Desire of having multiple sex partners, seeking variety kinds


FOR WOMEN :

1. Hope of some kind of emotional support which is non-existent.

2. Seeking pride, self worth, attention, time & sympathy

3. Out of sheer boredom

4. Seeking financial help for her own family

5. For sexual gratification, specially in cases where husbands are either not too keen to have regular sex, for whatever the reason it may be, or are unable to satisfy the wife sexually. Age difference can be a big problem. Out station jobs ie. absence of husband for long duration can also be a reason.

Well said i do agree