What to you is interesting in the opposite sex, that makes you go hmmm?
I like confidence, directness, honesty and eyes...

a small addition. Intelligence. (and common sense).

Creativity, groundedness, knows who he is and what he wants. Great family leader.
I am just getting warm.

adventurist openess understanding attentive loyal

Someone who will forgive me when I don't live up to all those things every moment. :)

another small thing: will make me giggle my butt off when her common sense goes south from time to time.

yeah ur correct /....,

Monogamy

I am always attracted to a man
who appreciates music & good decision makers.

I caught myself getting attracted to a man
who have abundant doses of common sense.

I realize I am always attracted to a man
who actually gets my point of view,
it does not even matter if he agrees or disagrees.
It is the idea that he actually "gets what I mean"
that makes him attractive.

I am always attracted to a man,
who does not mind really much about
the lyrics of a song,
but appreciates more the music and
impact of the song.

Typical woman. Starts a thread apparently talking about what initially atracts you to somebody and continues to draw up a list of all of his atributes.

I like it when there's an instant rapport. She's interested in me but she doesn't ask a lot of dumb questions that I don't really feel like answering. We get each other. She doesn't start criticising things that she notices about me, which could put me on the defencive and make me think that we're probably incompatible. She has a nice smile. Hmmm... Nice boobs too. Pretty eyes and she doesn't wear glasses. Well, she can take them off then if she does. I'm not kissing a woman that's wearing glasses.

I don't have any exact specifications when it comes to a woman but if i feel something that i know i can have with her, be it friendship or anything else i go for it...& i'm not referring to sex

Boobs.
Femininity.
Feminine voice, curves, mannerisms.

Otherwise there is nothing gender specific to the opposite sex that is interesting that makes me go hmmm, or that wouldn't make me go hmmm with anyone else.

...Although, I'm not all that clear by what "hmmm?" means.

Is it "hmmmm? I should pay more attention to that, it's not unpleasant and I'm curious."

Or is it "Hmmmm? WTF is that?! Is it gonna bite me? What's wrong with them? I'm really curious now about what kind of danger I'm in, or just...what the hell is going on there."


Oh...You mean "let's mentally masturbate to thoughts of being able to build our own human being to our own specifications according to our own selfish desires leading to our own selfish gratification in everything."

Then I don't care.
Just pick any supermodel and implant a chip in her head that makes her happy when she's my abject slave plus give her the ability to read my mind so she always knows what I want when I want it how I want it and with the chip in her head it makes her happy to fulfill that.

There you go.

The very first spark of attraction is going to be something he says.
Voice is so important then I am going to notice the way he carry's himself.

The eyes is a must are they alive.

Once I have noticed I look for these things.
They must have ethics,
They must be honourable.
They must be creative,
they must be hard working,
warm, funny, caring, laugh easily

He must have a belief in himself that comes shining through I believe a person that really believes in themselves don't have the chips on their shoulders they just are.

man it better be his brain...come here lemme pick it

We think alike.
Chips on shoulders make themselves obvious through digs at the opposite sex. Never mind.

She spooky lol

You don't have to be rich to be my man, you just gotta be a jack of all trade who knows different means and ways of living to keep my tummy full and make me happy:) you don't have to be handsome to turn me on; you got to not talk dirty , if you wanna impress me....you just gotta be intellectually stimulating, we can spontaneously talk and share anything under the sun. I want a funny,loving, caring, honest, loyal, compassionate man and with great sensitivity towards other people.......A man with immeasurable depth, I want to explore your heart and unravel the mystery:) ooooh, I think that's too many.....oh well, I know you can't be perfect.....I only want you to love me truly......prove your love to me , that you can stay beside me no matter what. Just be a loving patient man

How do I sound to you ?

Character, courage, courtesy, common sense, and calm.

being honest and upfront usually raises an eyebrow or two!