Lust only turns into more lust. It doesn't turn into love just cause you decided to keep your pants on for 3 months.

Why does everyone think that sex or foreplay has anything to do with a Loving relationship?

Love in a relationship is built on honesty, trust, communication, and values.

Sex is a physical attraction to another persons body or possession. We justify the act of sex as an expression of love for another person. Except you don't see a guy who has a dog, whom he loves all of a sudden bend it over and have sex with it cause he loves it. Of course not. He plays with it, and nurtures it and shows it affection, by petting and walking it.

Sex is just an excuse that some one came up with to test how good someone is in the bed, has nothing to do with a great relationship. Anyone can have sex, its how they treat you as a person that really matters.

WELL HE did fall in love.......we went out for 3 years and he wanted to marry me but I was young and wanted to be free to date others bla bla bla........

well thats nice, and im sure he was in love with you, but its very obvious that you wasn't with him.

Hmmmmmmmm well I was 19 soooooooooooo I think I did for a time but then again I was young......

He was a very nice guy except I got bored of him smoking dope and being quiet all the time......I was too outgoing and he was too quiet.......but he did love me.......

I was young and needed to date others.....nothing wrong with that.

as long as the attraction is still there - what difference does it make what kinda"word"you're using for it?!
enjoy!

Hi Anouk

hi kiddo

Now with the pot and such, yeah thats never a good combo in a relationship.

Its tiny tidbits such as those that need to be said, so it makes the whole picture make sense. :-P

what's not a good combo??
lust and love??




i disagree on that one

yes well the pot made a difference but we were all smoking it at that time.......terrible we were!!!

Lust and Love should be kept separated at all costs.


When it comes to anyone that your with, you choose one and go with it.

Mimx are you Dr Phil's son?

You seem very informed.

he just wants to argue with me!!!

not for me sir mimx.
i want it all!
mabey you just have another point of view?!

yes 1 part lust 1 part love and shake it all up and hmmmmmmmm

yep - now we're talking!

I'm feeling warmer already!

so gypsy, will you have cyberparty to your 20000post?
??!!
HELL THAT'S A LOT!!!!!!!!!! DAMN!!