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Topic: wrong sent?
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Wed 10/07/15 06:11 PM

this is why i like meeting in person. i knoew a guy that had 3 diff girl friends. i ask how he kept them straight. he said he just used the same pet name for all of them.

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Wed 10/07/15 06:19 PM

before the incident I already asked him if he has also other 'friend' aside from me but he said don't have



Honestly I have to say til you meet in person or you both have had the talk about being exclusive. He and you should be talking to others.

You haven't been here that long a little over 3 weeks. That is way way too fast to expect him or you to not to talk to others.

And well I think you have two choices.
You can call him on it. And say I think that message was meant for someone else or let it go.

Me personally I would have laughed it off and told him wrong girl dude.. rofl..
And if I was interested I would continue to chat with him.

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Wed 10/07/15 09:05 PM
If you love a good chat with this guy just for the sake of chatting then keep on. he may eventually tell you about his other dates



I wonder if he would ever tell: )

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Wed 10/07/15 09:15 PM

before the incident I already asked him if he has also other 'friend' aside from me but he said don't have



Honestly I have to say til you meet in person or you both have had the talk about being exclusive. He and you should be talking to others.

You haven't been here that long a little over 3 weeks. That is way way too fast to expect him or you to not to talk to others.

And well I think you have two choices.
You can call him on it. And say I think that message was meant for someone else or let it go.

Me personally I would have laughed it off and told him wrong girl dude.. rofl..
And if I was interested I would continue to chat with him.



after I read the message my mind goes blank. all I could think was 'OMG!
my excitement over him fell off.

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Thu 10/08/15 08:28 AM


before the incident I already asked him if he has also other 'friend' aside from me but he said don't have



Honestly I have to say til you meet in person or you both have had the talk about being exclusive. He and you should be talking to others.

You haven't been here that long a little over 3 weeks. That is way way too fast to expect him or you to not to talk to others.

And well I think you have two choices.
You can call him on it. And say I think that message was meant for someone else or let it go.

Me personally I would have laughed it off and told him wrong girl dude.. rofl..
And if I was interested I would continue to chat with him.



after I read the message my mind goes blank. all I could think was 'OMG!
my excitement over him fell off.

Then you had your answer he wasn't the one. Next time around just spend more time chatting IMO.
That way you will get a better feel of who you are talking to.
Best wishes in your searchflowerforyou

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Thu 10/08/15 09:21 AM
Ohh.. if I had a dollar for everytime I sent a text to the wrong lady friend..
I would have enough to buy a mars bar.. of my own..lol...

.. yes it is hard keeping them all straight sometimes... but they are all individual.. never to be treated as the same.. they are like snowflakes unique..
.. and I always avoid using their names.... although I do put their name by their phone number.. it's nice every once in a while to throw their real name into the conversation.. rather than baby.. it lets them know... that I know them.. that they do mean something official... but I have learnt to look twice before I send.. make sure it's going to the appropriate lady friend..wink wink... really hard to come back from.. so baby we're still on for tonight...?.. and get a text reply back.. that says.. I thought you said you were busy tonight. Wtf....lol..

Now you really got it back pedal..lmao

Ummm..ummm..ohhh yheaa.. I was busy baby.!!.. but I just got freed up..
So I was just wondering if you still want to go do something.. I was just wondering..:angel: :angel: ..

. Of course now I have to break off the real date with the other lady friend..oops .
Oh well a date is a date.. and a mars bar is a Mars bar..laugh laugh :angel:


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Thu 10/08/15 12:26 PM
" my internet is running slow"
" my mom, sister, pastor, son's teacher just called on phone"
" I had to take dinner out of oven"
" salesman at the door"
" my computer is old and runs slooooooow" noway

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