For how long can a guy pretend to be the right man for a girl before he finally open up his character ?

A man true character can be seen after sexual intimacy. If he wanted only sex he might stop communicating with her and move on. If he truly wants her he will stick around and be there for her.

I believe , the first time there is a disagreement

I think true character is harder to hide during difficult times or when facing obstacles,,,,,

also , when you are able to observe how they treat others when they dont know you are watching, how they are with family/friends,,,etc,,,

Just like women...not all men are the same

if he is a BS-ing ya? ya he will not be able to keep this up for long

truth has a way of coming out

watch him in public
how does he speak to say the check out lady
or the waitress or how does he act if someone bumps into him

when he takes a phone call

Forever if she doesn't want to pay attention and he gets something out of the relationship.


If a woman is sitting around waiting for guys to hand them their true and honest character without bias and relevant to what she finds important that woman is going to have a lot of really bad relationships.
i.e. it's more your responsibility to figure out his personality than his responsibility to make sure you know it and know it correctly.
Just like it's more the guys responsibility to figure out a woman's personality rather than wait for an itemized character ingredient list with some sort of honesty guarantee stamped on it.

Hide his beer and tv remote.