Darn Straight Datwasntme

I have photos on my profile and still can't find any genuine contacts, but maybe they just don't like where I live???

There is nothing wrong with your looks.
At lest you can say you don't need a paper bag.
You cute and I bet others agree.

When I joined Mingle, I have the same question as the OP.
So I made sure I have my recent pic of my latest
river trekking.

On top of that, I posted a photo of
myself with a good friend on a zip line
so they can see, that I like outdoors
& what is the real color of my hair,
in a direct sunlight.

On top of that, even if it is
discouraging, I posted a
not so recent photo that people
around me always say is my normal
everyday expression- an immature expression.

On top of that, I posted a picture
with me & other people.

Before my 60th day in Mingle,
I actually weep when I found out
my picture was used in another
website I have never registered.

I asked someone whose opinion I
always value in instant message,
why it happened and she said
"they do it because they can do it"

That very same day, I removed all 4
pictures that have my face on it.

What is left are pictures of my books.
At least they are really my books.

What is left is a picture of my glass &
wine, at least they are really mine.

What is left is a picture of my palm,
the butterfly is not mine though:)

All my profile pictures are mine
that I am proud of.

Until now I do not regret
removing my pictures,
and I do not have future plans
of uploading a new one.

I am here to interact & learn
from the forums.
I have declared, I am not
ready to love and I am
not ready to be loved.
So I do not see why I would
need a picture.

If by some miracle, I will
find a man who is compatible
with my personality & worthy
of my pictures, I will be
more than happy to show off
and flaunt what I have
exclusively & only for that man.

To post a picture with my
face now means, I encourage
male minglers, who can get past
my filters to instant message me.
Why should I encourage anyone,
when I am not ready for anything yet.
Yes I want to get to know someone
better, but not through
instant message-
I want to get to know someone
thru posts in the forum.
Chances are, the one, I want to get to
know more, already see the pictures
I posted before.

At the end of the day,
what is important to me is I was able to
to interact with people
& express myself in the board.
Give my takes if I feel the need.

holy crapola
this has morphed into a " got photos up but still got no lovin" thread

No pic no chic.