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Topic: Conundrums in yes, no, maybe :)
1Marie63's photo
Sun 09/27/15 08:05 PM

I had that happen in my mail once. Replied to one person and the page jumped just as I clicked the mouse. Got a nice reply asking me who I was I why I was mailing them?
Derp (to borrow a storm message). :)


:smile: I have done that as well. Luckily it was my work email and nothing private. Hasn't happened here yet.

misstina2's photo
Sun 09/27/15 08:14 PM


flowerforyou it takes too long i get tired of no's after about 5flowerforyou

As another blogger said. It might be different for women. You are likely to be a yes or maybe for 90% of the men on this site.

flowerforyou those saying yes are basing that on my picture aloneflowerforyou really i don't want to go through judging peopleflowerforyou A person can be good looking but i know that means nothing about the person insideflowerforyou

AdventureBegins's photo
Sun 09/27/15 08:15 PM



flowerforyou it takes too long i get tired of no's after about 5flowerforyou

As another blogger said. It might be different for women. You are likely to be a yes or maybe for 90% of the men on this site.

flowerforyou those saying yes are basing that on my picture aloneflowerforyou really i don't want to go through judging peopleflowerforyou A person can be good looking but i know that means nothing about the person insideflowerforyou

Some. I looked at your profile first. nice profile. I am not in your paramaters so no it was. :)flowerforyou

misstina2's photo
Sun 09/27/15 08:36 PM




flowerforyou it takes too long i get tired of no's after about 5flowerforyou

As another blogger said. It might be different for women. You are likely to be a yes or maybe for 90% of the men on this site.

flowerforyou those saying yes are basing that on my picture aloneflowerforyou really i don't want to go through judging peopleflowerforyou A person can be good looking but i know that means nothing about the person insideflowerforyou

Some. I looked at your profile first. nice profile. I am not in your paramaters so no it was. :)flowerforyou

I don't have anything written out perposelyflowerforyou maybe in future i will write somethingflowerforyou I have my reasonsflowerforyou

AdventureBegins's photo
Sun 09/27/15 08:46 PM
Edited by AdventureBegins on Sun 09/27/15 08:46 PM





flowerforyou it takes too long i get tired of no's after about 5flowerforyou

As another blogger said. It might be different for women. You are likely to be a yes or maybe for 90% of the men on this site.

flowerforyou those saying yes are basing that on my picture aloneflowerforyou really i don't want to go through judging peopleflowerforyou A person can be good looking but i know that means nothing about the person insideflowerforyou

Some. I looked at your profile first. nice profile. I am not in your paramaters so no it was. :)flowerforyou

I don't have anything written out perposelyflowerforyou maybe in future i will write somethingflowerforyou I have my reasonsflowerforyou

flowerforyou I understand. I changed mine (likely for the same reason).flowerforyou
Life is.

dreamerana's photo
Sun 09/27/15 09:26 PM



flowerforyou it takes too long i get tired of no's after about 5flowerforyou

As another blogger said. It might be different for women. You are likely to be a yes or maybe for 90% of the men on this site.

flowerforyou those saying yes are basing that on my picture aloneflowerforyou really i don't want to go through judging peopleflowerforyou A person can be good looking but i know that means nothing about the person insideflowerforyou


exactly. I'm a person who wants someone to appreciate/accept all of me. when I was still searching, I didn't like being judged just by a pic. so I didn't judge by pics. I would read the little blurb on each person.
I used no when it was someone completely on the opposite side of the world, when they had definite ideas that don't mesh with mine.
I used maybe a lot and yes when there was definitely something that caught my attention.

anymore, I don't check those out. just hang out in the forums or message with the friends I have made.

Kindlightheart's photo
Sun 09/27/15 09:46 PM
The yes,the no,the maybe...reminds me of the good,the bad,the ugly..tee hee... I check them here and there...usually just check no...mainly cause of distance...and most locals just don't interest me...tis life...flowerforyou

AdventureBegins's photo
Sun 09/27/15 10:44 PM
Mine are piling up. It feels like I am judging them every time I delve into it.

jacktrades's photo
Sun 09/27/15 11:09 PM
Edited by jacktrades on Sun 09/27/15 11:11 PM
To me the whole exercise is futile. If I want to chat with someone or someone wants to chat with me why not send a email? A nudge I understand they are like flirting and I am flattered by them, but the match thing I just don't get, unless you are a premium member you can't see them anyway.

no photo
Mon 09/28/15 12:10 AM
i am reading...

lot's of strange ways of thinking going on

AdventureBegins's photo
Mon 09/28/15 12:32 AM

i am reading...

lot's of strange ways of thinking going on

Diverse thinkings bring forth the uncommon rose in even the most barren of gardens.

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Mon 09/28/15 12:59 AM
I believe so

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 09/28/15 03:36 AM
I stopped doing those yonks ago.
When I first got on dating sites I thought it could help to find someone. But it depends on the parameters used by the gadget. That's all it is, a gadget.

And of course you'd get far more "no" than you would "yes" or "maybe". Finding the right partner is like finding a needle in a haystack.
If everyone was a "Yes" there'd be something wrong with your own parameters of finding the one :tongue:

no photo
Mon 09/28/15 03:41 AM

I had that happen in my mail once. Replied to one person and the page jumped just as I clicked the mouse. Got a nice reply asking me who I was I why I was mailing them?
Derp (to borrow a storm message). :)



*giggling*

You may utilize DERP... Or MEEP... Or... :smile: laugh

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