Does physical appearance affect your love for someone? I mean; ughhh

it can because physical attraction is part of what makes love

So if that person's not attractive you would love her less?

no. there is not more or less of love. but different kinds.

Hahahah! I'm a bit confused; but thank you anyways.

yes / no
i had a girl friend that we had dated for a couple years , then she got in a house fire and was burned over 95 % of her body
i did not love her any less cause of her appearance (r.i.p. miss ya)
would prob still be with her if she didnt take a short cut to the other side
<shrug>

another is my ex wife , even though she blew up and all most doubled her weight , i did not love her any less for it

i know my grandama and bumppa (grandfather) still loved each other till the end , there bodys had changed and aged ,and not as attractive as they where when younger , but i know they loved each other just as much as they had first meet, if not more : )

but i think what he was trying to say is if you are not attracted to the person then you wouldnt be in love with them to begin with

more or less i think it comes down to the person
the whole beauty is in the eye of the beholder

do you know the difference between a weed and a flower ?
your out look

hope i didnt confuse you more then you all ready where

no worries your physical appearance is not bad

I don't believe it affects the love you have for your partner.
I do believe that it does affect the initial attraction.

Right, wrong indifferent, we are attracted to what we like.
That is no one's fault it just is.

I have dated all sizes, etc...

I had someone special to me tell me recently that between the two
Most Women are more initially into the person, we feel before we see.

Most Men see before the feel that is correct I think to a huge point.

Yet once the love is there it is there doesn't matter what happens to the body you love the person.

I do understand it now hahaha! Thank you people

Yes

~ I was once married to a man for 10 years. During our marriage, I had put on a lot of weight, when he remained slim right until now. yet it never bothered him a single bit. He never once made any cynical remarks but was concerned sometimes for my health at times. This meant that physical appearance doesn't matter... but this is only because my ex husband was a very unique man and he loved me very much.

~ What I'm trying to say is... if it's TRUE love, NO it doesn't matter, but if it's just puppy love, a crush, fancy etc..... YES it does matter

~ did you understand that Leen?

Welcome to Mingle2 pinay girl Izzit?
(Do correct me if I'm wrong)

All the best in searching for what you deserve
P.s. u're very cute

With love,
LIFE

yes it can since we all have preference & ts the CE
chemistry that attract the two ppl together in order for the intimate to work

The physical only applies at the beginning of a relationship.. if you are not physically attracted to them at the beginning you probably won't be dating them.. but then once you start dating and fall in love.. their looks are just a bonus.... but as so so many others have stated... looks eventually go but the love in your heart only grows stronger....

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Wow that was deep even for me

yes it was : )
Congrats

Well I think you're right. :) Thank you. You're beautiful :)

But I don't like him at first. haaaays

yes yes yes u see am not attracted to @romeo lol

Let me try to explain it this way. At times, you may meet someone that doesn't really attract you. It may be there looks. The way they talk, anything really. But sometimes after you have been around this person for a while you start to see this person in a different light. There is just something about this person that you didn't see. That now you do. And it's appealing to you.

And other times, You are not interested. And you can't be. This person just doesn't do it for you and that's that.

Then another time, The time you lay eyes on this person, that person grabs you by the heart. You have to be with this person. PERIOD. You are very attracted to them.

I'm wondering though if you may be wondering if you can learn to love someone that you are not attracted to. Yes, you can. But it takes time.

I do agree with that. It's only matters in the beginning, cuz one wouldn't even talk to whom he or she isn't physically attracted.