When you are blessed with a standard relationship what next after you know more about each other

well if it's only "standard", maybe a cup of coffee perhaps?

What's a standard relationship? I've never heard of that. I never even thought about a relationship being standard. Seems to have a boring ring to it.

then the kink sets in...

After you know more about each other is usually when mine go all to hell.....

Everyone is different and expects different things from a relationship. Therefore, there is no such thing as standard.

The only advice that I can give is to discuss it with the other person. Find out where they would like to go next. I have seen relationships fall apart due to lack of communication but I have never seen one fall apart from over communication.

A date to explore on an interpersonal level that which you know about each other in a practical setting?
Like you now know they like movies...so you go see a movie?

yeah and if all that fails just start pullin' her hair kinda hard....

PMS is next. And it is going to kick your asz real hard. Then she might gain weight and becomes less attractive. The bills will launch an all out war on the relationship and its missiles will hit the relationship real hard

Libido, so true.

two people who come together for whatever reasons

lust, interest, commonality, love, companionship

decide to make a go of it..to be mutually exclusive
and either shack up together or walk down aisle of a church
or head to court house and make it official

then they begin the process of going from a his/her dating relationship
to two people trying to co-exist in the same household

what kinds of food should we buy at store
cook for dinner or eat for breakfast

how clean should the house be and should we make the bed each day and is it
ok to leave a dirty dish in the sink or does that bother you

then time goes on and ya fall into a kind of rhythm together
work monday thru friday and go out to dinner somewhere friday night
maybe meet some friends for some drinks
go see folks on sunday for dinner

the as time goes on you decide to make some changes
a better job, a promotion or two, a bigger house, a baby or two
and with those changes comes more hours at work
more responsibility, more stress of trying to pay the mortgage on this new bigger house and dealing with whose side of family to visit on holidays

it's no longer just the two of you
now ya got doctor and dentist appointments and school plays
and did ya remember to send out the birthday party invitations
and oh yes your mother is coming to visit and junior has outgrown
another pair of shoes

and you are most of time just trying to keep your head above
water and keep on paddling without going under
did I take anything out to thaw for dinner
did anyone feed the dog or take the garbage out to the curb
busy, busy, busy

and ya don't have time anymore
to stare dreamily across a candle lit table at each other
or go for a walk on beach holding hands at sun set
ya don't dance to a slow song in the living room after putting kids to bed
ya don't remember the last time ya hugged each other
and making love becomes a scheduled event penciled in for a tuesday night
and that is only if the load of laundry that's sitting in dryer
gets folded first and did ya lock the door


and then it begins...the he said /she said
the who had a harder day
the finger pointing, beeching and complaining
and trying to figure out why
neither one of ya feel appreciated or loved anymore

well did it work ?
is there chemistry ?
keep going and see where it goes

best wishes to you : )