come on get along now, all show the love.!!!!!!!!!!!!!! huggz all around.!!!!!!!!!!

Wow thanks. I didnt know I was a joke... Your FIFTY YEARS OLD and you have YET to be married at ALL... should I REALLY take advice from YOU on marriage? This is an HONEST QUESTION. Put your gloves back on you silly stinker!

<<<--- will be 29 in 2 months, and is dating (online) a 36 year old guy she met on here.... what's wrong with ages???

Anyways, I wont get to post "marriage" stuff here until I get to meet him in person, is that a wise idea jess??

You.....Miss Gwen!!!!!!!

i never married by choice.....some of us were born to use our brains

it's good to get all pissy in my face..... c'mon..

show us your dark side

LOL

Here Miss Jess!!!!

No one is saying to date around. That's not what I've read here.

However it doesn't hurt to actually spend time getting to know each other in person. Traveling to see each other and spending time with each other and your children isn't a bad idea. I met someone online a few years ago and was completely smitten. Once I moved several thousand miles away to be with this person and we were in the same house with financial issues, parenting issues etc the real relationship started. It didn't last more than a few months. W both thought we were so in love. We thought we would be together for the rest of our lives. We were pushing 30!

I think most people here want to see you happy and have good intentions. If you want to go rushing into a marriage and drag all those kids in with you then just remember that the only ones that suffer are the children. Just think about them for a minute.

Best of luck to both of you.

Well isnt this lovely i post something nice and then people get angry

Funny you should mention that Bl8ant...I was thinking the same thing...

Very interesting....and we're strangers...




Glad to see you are here, Gwen, and not an imposter...

wow... we been there and done it and at 50 you see things in life that you never thought you would and clarity comes with this new life over 50 and I'm glad I'm here and not there with you young hearts. But your youth still carries the day aand I'm a fan of hope.. I hope it works and that you have many memorable years of togetherness and joy and can stand with each other in the sunset and be glad that you saw and did and dreamed it together and can breatha easy together. Maybe be with all the children in one big happy family. Be careful to stay breathlessly close to one another and resist separate pursuits!! Go now before it gets harsh and edgy. None of us wants to be the wedge between you two, but you've heard from some oolder and wiser folks who mean well and don't want you to hurt! Peace, out xoxoxo wouldee

Ah yes bl8ant, marriage is evil. OK. If you've never done it, don't come to ME with your huff and your puff to try to blow MY house down.

If I post in your next toppic.. say... hmm "jeez i hate my life and want to die but I dont know why...maybe I should get married...nah that is evil" then you by all means tell me which way to flush the toilet.

It's like a auto mechanic trying to get their mits on some flan. Get out of the kitchen *****! I'm working on it, now go change some oil and tell people how to do things you ACTUALLY HAVE DONE YOURSELF!

I'm leaving you can have your final almighty word bl8ant. You are right after all, because your OLD! That makes you better and smarter. I feel sorry for YOUR kids too. At least we can agree we both have pity on each others spawn.

We just love each other. Sorry if you hate that. Sorry you never found it yourself. I doubt you will with your petty attitude. I hope your just having a bad day. Take care!

Thank u wouldee!!! i know what everyone here is trying to get at, i too hope for the best with everything and anything that comes our way

aw... come on... i like the ant....

Hmmm... me, imposter???

You know Im in love too Jess?

you pathetic little twit.... just because i never signed my name on the dotted line...just because i never lied in vows at the alter in front of a made up invented god....


you have nothing to say about my life ..... i am loved and cherished by all the fathers of my children...can you say that about your X
????

Yup.

Be happy. You'll live longer. No hard feelings here. I'm sorry for being mean. I don't agree with you though. My life has always gone great, I have always made the right choices in general, and I've always worked hard to make things work. I'm sorry but I'm not as dumb as you think I am.

It's just my pathetic opinion, but I think you're a little to cynical for your own good.