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Topic: The "lets exchange pics" thing
TawtStrat's photo
Wed 09/23/15 09:44 AM




I've got a problem with it. I won't give my email to anyone that I've never met in person.

I'm not interested in cybering either and this is where I do agree with you. As soon as anyone mentions trading photos I just think scammer or cam girl.
...amazing how many fakes are out there... But why would the idea of exchanging pics make you think scammers... I am just the opposite...seems to me that if a guy won't send me random pics he might not be who he claims to be...but then I am way too trusting and get screwed over a lot...
slapheadflowerforyou


If we're meeting in a public place I don't tell them that I'll be the guy holding a newspaper or wearing a flower in his buttonhole. I tell them to look out for me; the man in those pictures on my profile.

I can't imagine that a woman would tell me that she's a busty thirty year old blonde and not be anything like that when she showed up. Most of them lie about their ages anyway, so if she turns out to be forty that isn't completely awful because that's still within the age range that I would date. One woman turned out to be fifty two, when her profile said forty eight. She said that she did that because young guys kept hitting on her when it had her real age on it.


That's the point of talking cam to cam, so you will see the real person and not be fooled when you meet personally. It's just one click away, why waste time and wait to see her in person and be surprised that you have been fooled all along? Strange!think frustrated


I'm simply not interested in going on webcam with anybody. Neither are most women. I don't want a virtual date. I'm fine with the first meeting really being the first meeting and I told you that I'm not interested in cybering.

It really isn't a problem for me. Ugly women leave me alone and the worst that's happened is that I got a flat chested date once. These things happen but I got over it. At least we had a nice chat. She didn't like it when I told her that she wasn't really my type though. No woman likes that. Do I look like I'm desperate and would be interested in an ugly old slapper? I don't think so and those are the types of guys they try it on with.

BigSky1970's photo
Thu 09/24/15 01:38 AM
Edited by BigSky1970 on Thu 09/24/15 01:44 AM

I've got a problem with it. I won't give my email to anyone that I've never met in person.

I'm not interested in cybering either and this is where I do agree with you. As soon as anyone mentions trading photos I just think scammer or cam girl.


If the lady I meet asks to exchange pictures and sends one and then says something to the effect "If you like, you can see the rest of my pictures at (insert web address here)", that's a red flag that they're nothing more than a cam girl, IMHO. At that point, I drop them and move on.

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