im beginning to wonder if this really is true or not, whats ur views on this?

Yes sir I do believe that, its just will you be ready when that person appears.

Yes but there are numerous issues that make it difficult these being 1) you are not able to communicate with women is such a way so as to be heard and appreciated for your understanding, patience, and willingness not to offer solutions when they are sharing 2) you are able to see past the way a woman looks and appreciate her intellect, emotionality, physical and spiritual needs, know when to offer support without asking and at least offer when asked 3) know that is she is not happy your life will not be happy either 4) remember to share feelings each day and take time to let her know your love for her and what it means to you 5) support her interests, friends, and personal space when needed or as simply requested 6) try not calling names or yelling just to feel better at someone elses expense 7)be open and honest with yourself and daily events so she in an integral part of your life and you hers 8)for no special reason share with her small tokens of affection, a hug here a kiss there and a note or two for laughs all the while letting her know how important and special she is 9) make it a point that at least once a week you have a special date just for the two of you and not talk about anything but your relations 10) recognize that if you dont do the aforementioned i will likely be sleeping with her since you are ignoring her and that is awful.....

Not too sure if there is one for every single one of us. It's out of our hands. God's duty

All I can say is ...don't go into the light stay ,away from the light

To be honest, Sometimes I doubt it. I would like to believe it. I'm 53. I've been dating a long time. I was married once to a person whom I thought I had found it. We've been divorced close to 15 years. I figured I would be married again by now. But here I am still single.

I just can't seem to find the right thing. And it must be really hard to get. Look at how many there are out there looking for it besides us. So, I really can't tell you for sure. All I know is I have seen it in other people. It's like some people can find it very easy to move from one relationship to another. While others seem to get stuck in a rut very easy.

Maybe, but most guys that I like don't like me back and vice versa. So it's really hard to make a mutual connection. For me.

Ditto

True...

U really think so? Why does it seem SO hard?

Perhaps so we will appreciate it more when it happens.

Sorrow or mirth?

Will mail u

Dude....let me give you this perspective......Michael Jackson, the King of Pop.....quite possibly the most phucked up dude ever....managed to find someone. So....in summation....there is hope.

It's not true in the sense like you are entitled to someone, like there is someone out there tailor made for you, the purpose of their existence is your ultimate relationship actualization and happiness.

There's really always someone out there for all of us because there is an ample supply, lots of turnover, lots of churn, and people keep making more people.

"there's someone out there for all of us," is no different than "plenty of fish in the sea!"

It's used as a mollifying platitude, not an absolute universal law.

This is the way I have been doing it for a good while now. You have to get to the place where you don't care anymore. You take it as it comes. If it does, it does, and if it don't, It don't. You have to get to a place to where you don't let it bother you. You go out and live your life as best as you can. Be happy within yourself. You have to love you first. When you finally get this mindset, things will get easier.

Just throwing this in. As far as being on a dating site goes, 90 to 95% of the time you will be ignored when you write someone. It's just part of the game. It's just how it is. This is where the above comes in. You can't let it bother you. Go with the flow. Don't get mad. Don't take it personal. Keep on stroking. Eventually, it will go your way. Sometimes it just takes time. Just be you. And be happy with you. Everything else will fall into place.

I will drink to this

Best course of action is to wait and see, but never hope too much.