Is this how you do it?
Oh might try it
Lol I more likely to fall flat on my face and look more like a beach whale without the gracefulness but it with be worth the laugh.

I have faith in you Annie.

You are only out of some ones league if you act like you are. Assuming a good looking guy WORKING in a movie theater is "just a pretty face" and not a person with something between his ears and not just something in his pants is probably why this guy is ignoring you.

Suggesting someone is gay because he doesn't respond to having someone throw herself at him is rude. He has a choice . And he probably has a girlfriend but doesn't need to be bragging about it ON HIS JOB.

You want someone your own age to dance with then start acting your age not like a teenager trying too hard to get her first attention.

eww what if he has greasy face from all that popcorn or bad breath.. ewww...

I will tell you something that works well with men, walk up to him smile and tell him you are interested in him and give him your phone number. Present yourself as a conservative, smart, attractive,some what shy woman. if that's not good enough for him then just move on because if being genuine is not for him your wasting your time. Best wishes to you.

What if another dude rushes to her aid before the actual target does?

Great advice above there in response to the how to aproach a guy question. "Don't and start acting your age."

Super helpful as usual there Joyce.

Wouldn't that be easy!
And a wee bit ironic, I mean, finally we have the freedom to choose and take action if we like to. Yet we want to go back to sort of arranged relationships, let our parents take care of it, haha.
Isn't it ironic, don't you think? - Alanis Morisette

The other dude could be even more interesting though?
It would be more embarrassing if NO dude came to the rescue :/

If there's a chance to meet a man like Christian Grey, I will do a somersault in front of him! haha but I suppose it will freak him out!

I let you know if it works
Now to find a guy to fall for it

I remember an ex of mine telling me that we needed to make a story up if people asked us how we had met. I was really fed up with the dating scene and the women that I was meeting at the time. My mum had met some woman when she was out walking the dog, told her about me and got her address and phone number.

My mother is one of those people that can meet a stranger somewhere like that and find out if they're single and what they do and all of that and it's only embarrasing if she does it in front of me and makes the matchmaking too blatant. I tend to keep to myself though and my neighbors mostly just know who I am because they've probably met my mother sometime.

She was just round for a quick visit just now and we took the dog to the park and then I asked her if she could go to the shop for me because I didn't want to go through the usual performance, with trying to make the Pakistanis understand what I want. My mum was taking a while, so I went to the door of the shop, where these women were standing chatting and my mum decided to ask the Pakistani guy his name and she introduced me to him as if I was ten years old or something. I mean, she made a point of saying that I'm nice and I could only laugh about it because it was right in front of these women. Well, one of them seemed to find it amusing and she said goodbye to me when we left. My mum asked me who she was and I said that I don't no. She had just introduced me to her by making that little scene there, I said.

should ladies go to this lent to get any man she want.
to me its crazy because men do not wort our love at all. 90% of them are dogs and its hard to find 1% of lamb among them.
hiss!!!

Well as usual someone has to ignore the obvious which was NOT to say don't flirt with someone in a lady like or mature way; but to do it in an age appropriate way in an appropriate setting. Trying to hustle a date by overt sexual moves on a person on their job is an epic fail. She will be lucky if this guy ever talks to her.

If you take your flirting advice from a cheeky comedy, the bend over move, or fainting then you deserve to me ignored or worst laughed at and talked about behind your back. Asking your Mother to hustle you dates is immature and desperate. Independent adults manage their own personal lives.

If a person sees someone they are interested in then you try to represent yourself as a peer in a considerate way. Having a positive and intelligent remark that fits the situation is a good start. (In the theater it would have been more likely a remark about one of the movies or asking was he studying cinema at the local colleges if the line was not behind her. Exercising good manners is a start and introducing yourself by offering your name and if you know it saying theirs is going to make a lot better impression that you are interested than some of the humorous, but poor taste ones ones put forth so far.

Giving someone a compliment is another. Certainly insulting them in public media where I am pretty sure someone will put two an two together and probably razz this poor guy even further is not going to help her social life AT ALL.

Committing "Social suicide" on line is never a smart move in a youth culture that lives and breaths by their I-phones. Putting up posts that make you look pathetic might get you attention in the short term but I don't recommend it.

Especially ones that make it sound like you want one, and only one thing, from a guy that you do not even know. That could actually be dangerous and get a lot of the wrong kind of attention.

And as far as bashing Louisville guys as not offering a lot then maybe she would have better luck meeting someone who is dateable in and environment that is a little better motivated like a college campus, community service organization, or a gym, or park, even church rather than hanging out at a place where old guys are trying to hit on her. I lived in Kentucky and know that Jaycees and many other young peoples organizations are doing all kinds of positive things. With Ft.Knox only minutes away that is full of healthy employed professionals it is not like there are not a multitude of better choices.

That's really preachy as usual and actually unfair to the OP, as she said that she's interested in his writing and the fact that he's at least got a job. It isn't a crime to think that someone looks gorgeous and lollol to a young guy worrying that he might lose his popcorn vending job because girls keep hitting on him. If worst comes to worst they've probably got vacancies at McDonalds.

Getting someone fired from their job is hardly a joke or acceptable behavior weather at a theater; or McDonalds which I am sure this victim would not appreciate as and alternative nor the OP.

And since it is likely this is someone in her immediate neighborhood that could have serious results even ending up in a restraining order, at the very least banned from the theater chain, that would really mess up her life.

At some point OP will have to take a hint and chalk it up as loss and move on. Disappointing if she has a "crush" on the victim but hardly worth the hassles that could result if she behaves in a way that will reflect badly on her future. As would faking a faint which would most likely result in an expensive paramedic trip to a local hospital or even arrested for assault with sexual harassment charges if she grabs his bum which would be recorded in most theaters and could at the very least get her put on a psyche hold and maybe even kicked out of her housing as some of these situations have a bad habit of snowballing into.

But if some old guy is cheering her on in making a further attempt even if it is only to make it a duel of opinions rather than the OP's best interest she will figure that out. Especially if she considers the source.

I'm no expert and I don't think I've ever had a girl trying to chat me up , so to speak, but try asking him a few simple questions, like, have you had a nice day.

If he's interested I'm pretty sure he will turn something simple like that into a conversation.
If he's not interested I would imagine he will give you a quick answer.

It's difficult to know if someone is just being friendly but I'm sure by his reaction you'll know if there's no chance.

You could always try the SAS who dares wins approach but you may scare him.

Good luck, I hope it all works out.

One more thing, no one is in a different league to anyone,

The simple question would get my vote. One word response and no/minimal smile followed with would you like a drink is all business and a shut down but a little more response would be a good sign.

I also agree to the no one is in a different league than anyone else; at least until you put yourself there by your own actions. If you act low class then you can put yourself a couple leagues under the sea level but if you just do your best to be nice and respectful even a little more pleasant than the average person you will be memorable and up your standing with most people. Being gorgeous, smart, rich or any of the other so called pluses mean nothing if you are not liked for being "nice". When people really gush about someone they are interested in one of the things they often say is they are so nice to me.

A person in the service industry will always remember you if you are nice and actually treat them like they are not invisible because it is so rare.

Tell us how you really feel.

I'm wondering what's up with the remaining 9%?
I think they're what I'm aiming for. I don't want a dog, nor a lamb. I'm guessing the rest are tall gorgeous hunks with broad shoulders, good muscles and decent equipment.
That's more like what's in my dreams. No dogs or lambs in 'em