There is guy I am interesting in meeting. I do not have confident up to a him. I seen him at the movie theater. He work at stand where one get popcorn. And then only contact with him that is with him handing the popcorn. Then I wonder to a myself if he girl friend? Or if he is gay? I do every time I am movies I make sure there take popcorn with my parents.The only thing I am able to say thank you when he drinks. The reason I liked him is a simple because he keep pants on his waist line. There is sagging or baggy with pants and well those that are sage are straight right. But the one tight pant I been told are gay.

Then well other time I was interest it was same issue. I thought he was so handsome but I felt out of his league or out his specie because it seemed God spend a lot of time on making his face and everything.Because where my mom work? I was interest in him. He work with my mom at her store. But every time we would check out nothing came out that is voice wise other thank you for this or that. That is he was again cute and well the reason was a because he wore pants right. I am wondering is he gay? Or maybe if I look maybe Norma Jean or sometime model maybe he interest in me.

How do you all deal with that? When you feel out place and well you liked guys but you feel they out league? What do you in those incident where you day dream about those guy are so beautiful but you feel out league in those incident?

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Honestly I don't look at people in a league or out of one. They are just people...
When I have been interested in someone I talk to them..saying hello and follow up. It is pretty easy to see if a guy is interested or not.

IN this situation it could be you are a customer and nothing more.

So next time smile really big at him when placing an order. And start a small chit chat conversation.


If he keeps it going and asks you questions then he may be interested.

Here's my advice and you can take it or leave it. If you don't know how to get anywhere with this guy get your mother to go there sometime and tell her to tell him that you like him and think that he's very handsome. If he's interested he'll give her his phone number or ask for yours.

Does this work..
hmmmm... What about sending your adult children up to the counter to ask..

Sounds like you need what is called an ice breaker, something to say to him to get a response. So next time you see him at the movie house and right as he hands you your popcorn, say to him "We need to quit meeting like this because folks are thinking we are a couple". Then see what kind of reaction you get from him. If it's cold or silence, then no foul, watch the movie, enjoy your popcorn and move on to the next guy. If it laughs or comments back then see if you can keep the dialog going, unless he is too busy.

lol

that's actually happend to me but i wasn't really interested in the chick.....it works if both parties fancy each other

you got it livingsingle

so my advise would be go read all the cheesy pickup lines (and i think we have at least 3 current threads) and find one that fits. then practice it until you can say it all no matter what. that will help get over being scared and start the ball rolling. after that just talk and be yourself. he will be interested or not. and even if he is not you get a bit of practice talking through your nervousness

I had never heard of this one before...
Thanks for clearing it up...



I have to agree talking to the guy is the only way you will find out if he might interested and if you are still interested.

To many times I have thought someone was interesting to find out 10 minutes into the conversation nope not anymore..

Show some leg....show some cleavage.....give a wink......or just look at him and do a subtle lip lick with your tongue. These are just a few of the many ways a woman can get any man she wants. Film at 11.

I have show some legs. I have worn shorts.My cleavage is a not my best part because my breast are not real big.I have even tried to bend over in store and few feet from him because I act drop something on the floor. That did not work well because he was detraction by another customer. I have not done the lip lick thing with tongue yet.

Is he gay?

I honest do not know. I only know what my mom tell me because they work together.She told that he was not interesting in getting married. That was not in my thoughts. That he is in college. I just want someone to a go movies with or to single dance instead of dancing with bunch men old enough to a be grandfather.

Hello Sileia!:) I believe you are a beautiful lady , so don't ever think that you are out of his league. If you are really interested with him and you want to know him, gather your wits as you plan to approach him, make a good opening line to start up a conversation like about the weather, the popcorn , ask something about his job like how much popcorn do they sell everyday, show your interest about his job, say something about what you see in your surrounding. Just be cool and be yourself as you make a friendly conversation while he is scooping/making your popcorn. If he responds warmly, there you got his attention already, from there you will observe if he is also interested to further the conversation.

If he is a shy guy , definitely he would be hesitant to approach you. So if you have the guts to initiate a conversation , do it. However, doing it will not guarantee that he could be interested with you, maybe yes or no. On the other hand, you have mentioned that you always buy popcorn there so definitely he must have noticed you and is already familiar with your face. If he is interested with you he could have approached you long before. Well, maybe he is shy, that, you will have to discover by yourself. But I believe that if a guy is really into you, he will be the first to initiate the approach or conversation, with that you will definitely know if he is interested or not. Just saying

Still, I wish you good luck. May you have the courage and grace on how to approach him

Well, I'm trying to answer this question as a guy that's had a few women saying that I'm hot and is a bit vain about it.

I flirt with women in places like that all the time and don't read much into it. They don't know anything about me, apart from whether they think I'm good looking or not and it's all superficial. I'm vain, so I'm going to take it for granted that they find me atractive on a superficial level, or they must be a lesbian or something. What I'm not taking for granted is that even if a woman's giving me a 10 on looks and charm that she'll in any way be interested in getting involved with a guy like me.

This guy sells popcorn for a living. What league does that put him in with a girl that goes there with her parents?

I'm just telling you what works on me. If someone's friendly or flirty with me it's nice but it doesn't tell me anything that I didn't already know. On the other hand, if they actually come out and say that they fancy me (or get someone to tell me) I think, "Great. It's good enough for them that they think that I'm hot. Here's somebody that's just looking for a hot guy. I can do that."

Well there is not alot attractive in Louisville.Between that I have meet my brother date girls. Well most of them I have had problems. Let see bipolar issue,addiction issues with drugs. He actually keep his job my bro does not that is good.

I mean he seemed better then what my brother picks. With women he has lousy picky when picking out women.There is not a lot choice from in Louisville.I seen him one time writing I think story. I still would love read his story that he was writing when people were not bothering him about popcorn.

Those could plus with my parents that he keep a job. I am not sure what else there is. I mean have look in Louisville and well let face it is hard to a find a guy who does not have problems either way

so take what we have offered and approach him and see where it goes. after you break the ice i would suggest honesty and plain speaking. like... i think you are interesting and i would like to get to know you better

but please come back and tell us how it worked out

Talk to him like he is human and not from Mars.
Say hi how are?
How was you day?
The first step is the hard one.
Once that is done you in.
Be friendly and go from there.

This works for me and I have a lot of guy mates.
Guys are easier to talk to cause you can be can be straight up and they are the same
You know where you stand no flipping games. In saying this I do have close girl mates that are like this too.
Have fun makes friends and go from there.

Okay. I got this. Here is what you do. Walk up to him and then do a dramatic faint. When he rushes to your aid, slowly open your eyes and then gently bring you hands to his face, gently caressing his facial skin with your fingers. Then smile and thank him for being your hero. He will blush and be all kind....and when he is then take your hands and grab that tush of his. Get a good feel too.....let him know that you want to touch dat azz. And then release that grip and state "Oh my....I don't know what came over me". Walk away and after about ten steps turn around. If he is watching you leave then smile....ya got him!

Disclaimer.......this worked in the book Fifty Shades of Azz Grabbing so if it was written in a book....well ya know...it should work.