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Topic: How to deal with him
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Mon 09/07/15 05:30 AM



I love him but I am afraid he would just keep on breaking my heart from not keeping his promises. He has lied to me several times. He does not apologize. I am confused. Sometimes I think my future with him would be a disaster. He does not want to break up. He does not do anything to keep me either.


so why are you forcing yourself to be with him?

because i am hoping we can still work this out. i dont know


you want to work things out without his cooperation? sounds unrealistic, dont you think?
i think you are investing yourself in a lot of false hope. is that what you want?

he's not aware of his wrong doings and asks me why I do this. I am going to break up with him .

have you met this guy in person? is this online thing? if its only online dating. its just drama.

i met him online and he came to the philippines to meet me and my family.

did you take pictures talked about visa? if he is younger if he liked you he be considering a visa if he is older he may be thinking living there and not quite ready to move. that's just how I think. don't really know his thoughts

he's older. he wants to take me to his country.

have you started visa??? if he came met your family took pics and filed visa. you my dear are a drama queen :)

i am not making this up. i dont have to prove myself to you
you are asking for help no one knows you. its like an iceberg only the tip is showing. if he has filed a visa he is serious it may be you are young and scared to leave ur family. if you have fears deal with them get them out in the open

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Mon 09/07/15 05:38 AM
^ I need to send you a copy of "How to Win Friends and Influence People". laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 09/07/15 06:11 AM
I'll put this as simple as I can, if the only future you can envision with this guy is a disaster, RRRRRUUUUNNN!!!!!!!

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Mon 09/07/15 06:37 AM
agreed
sounds like a manipulator

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Mon 09/07/15 10:12 AM




I love him but I am afraid he would just keep on breaking my heart from not keeping his promises. He has lied to me several times. He does not apologize. I am confused. Sometimes I think my future with him would be a disaster. He does not want to break up. He does not do anything to keep me either.


so why are you forcing yourself to be with him?

because i am hoping we can still work this out. i dont know


you want to work things out without his cooperation? sounds unrealistic, dont you think?
i think you are investing yourself in a lot of false hope. is that what you want?

he's not aware of his wrong doings and asks me why I do this. I am going to break up with him .

have you met this guy in person? is this online thing? if its only online dating. its just drama.

i met him online and he came to the philippines to meet me and my family.

did you take pictures talked about visa? if he is younger if he liked you he be considering a visa if he is older he may be thinking living there and not quite ready to move. that's just how I think. don't really know his thoughts

he's older. he wants to take me to his country.

have you started visa??? if he came met your family took pics and filed visa. you my dear are a drama queen :)

i am not making this up. i dont have to prove myself to you



He sounds like a scammer. I get tons of emails of guys saying how much they love me and my kids on the first hello. I ignore them.

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Mon 09/07/15 10:53 AM

I love him but I am afraid he would just keep on breaking my heart from not keeping his promises. He has lied to me several times. He does not apologize. I am confused. Sometimes I think my future with him would be a disaster. He does not want to break up. He does not do anything to keep me either.


Honestly... In my world actions speak louder than words..
Are you doing all the contacting since his visit?

Even as young as you are, you have to know when you are beating a dead horse.
What is confusing about this. He lies and you agree with them.
He is not keeping his promises he made before meeting you.
Time to cut bait and fish for another fish in the sea

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