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Topic: do you respond to your messagesm
Peaches73036's photo
Mon 10/15/07 02:14 PM
really, do plz try to keep it clean....
xoxoPeaches.

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Mon 10/15/07 02:22 PM
Hot is right, I get lots of e-mail here and 99.9% of it is about something I wrote in the forums. I think people are more comfortable writing to someone they have gotten a feel for, by reading forum posts.

The rest of my e-mail is people asking me about the tape dispenser.

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Mon 10/15/07 02:23 PM
I hear ya Lex... I hear ya... laugh

JoshH's photo
Mon 10/15/07 02:25 PM
when i get them...

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 10/15/07 02:31 PM
Hmmmm You want it sugar coated or straight up guys?
Someone just says "Hi" and doesn't carry into a bit of a note that shows they read my profile I am probably going to think they are just bored and not all that interested in a real response. Kind of like a Hi as you pass on the street.
The "Hi Whut's up" kind of greetings looses in translation and kind of make you sound thug or stupid not hip or whatever term is currently in fashion. Hey or referenceing women as Babe, Chick,Woman, or Momma, Ho, Withe's, Psycho's, or Biotch, ecetera is going to drill a hole in the middle of your head. Women read the forums and the posts and they may be your "friends" but they aren't going to be your "dates".
It is sad to say but your picture is worth a thousand words guys. You think men are visual Get real so are women. Look at it. Is it really flattering? What is growing out of your head in the background. Does it look like it was taken in a bar, a bathroom, or your Momma's house? Women look at the whole picture do you make your bed or live like a pig? How do you look? If it is like a punk, sloppy, slouchy, grossly overweight in too tight clothes, muddy boots, no smile, or something akin to a mug shot? Come on guys forget the flexing muscles and looking intimidating you aren't applying for a job as a bouncer or a line backer you are hopeing for a lady or some sweet young thing to want to be close to you. Ditch the the doo-rags, caps, sunglasses, and leathers. Get a shirt with a collar and tuck it in. (Who wants to go on a date with a guy in an underwear yessh), and style your hair and have a fresh shave. You want to wear facial hair you are cutting your chances in half or more. You smoke try about 80% or more. You want to look like a slob hanging out with your pals or talking on the keyboard hey no problem but that photo is the first and lasting impression. Women show your pictures to someone before they go on a date. You don't need them labeling you a zero before you even get to hello.
Sorry guys I know it bites but some of you are just too young for many of the girls/women on this site. If she is older or has a kid and you don't have a job Your waisting your time. If you can't or aren't willing to spring for a meal and a babysitter, if need be, don't plan on hanging out. If you are a drop out, don't like your parents, or hate your boss you are not projecting potential. For someone setting home with a kid that you are going to college or traveling the world even in the military isn't going to set real well unless it is clear you are working your way through and thier not just a temporary back door girl.
And for the record they know you think about sex and they are hot, or you can be sensuous, or would love to rub something; so delete these evaluations or declarations at the on switch. We get it...you male.. we female! Take a cold shower and take the computer out of the bedroom mode. The best way NOT to get a kiss is to beg, be entitled,brag that someone else said you are good (which was probably a lie) or be pushy about it.
By the way you really want a response put something in your profile that a female would like doing with you. Setting around watching you play xbox, lift weights, finish 18 holes of golf, or polish your motorcycle or other typically solitary male pursuits are not going to do much for starting a conversation and suggest you are just telling us you will get around to us when you are tired of your "toys". Surely you have a favorite singer, movie, type of food, dance step, or even tv program you can reference. Some place you would like to go? Or been? Do you have a pet? Collect something?
If you whine about you can't get a response or a date (that is kind of a given if you hang out on line)it all most always is going to deduct another five years from your maturity level. Once they think of you as a brat or Peter Pan you are not going to get promoted to date material. If you look like you spend more time in front of a mirrow than who you are trying to talk too she probably isn't going to have a lot to say.

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Mon 10/15/07 02:32 PM
I don't get emails so I don't respond but rarely when I do get one I respond. I just really find it frustrating to email the few people who live not 5 hours away from me and not one responds.

MissBehaving's photo
Mon 10/15/07 02:33 PM

Yes, except for the obviously sexual first e-mails ....then noway

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Mon 10/15/07 02:34 PM
oh and by the way any woman who just judges you based on a picture is a shallow loser not even worth your time. If a girl e-mails me I'll gladly read it and respond even without taking the time to scope out her pictures it's just the proper thing to do.

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