I have spent a lot of time looking for my best friend and lover and have discovered that are a great many women that dont smoke and few that do. I try not to bother the women that dont smoke so I'm asking how many non-smokeing women out there would date a smoker?

I would never date a smoker, I watched my late husband die of cancer of the throat due to smoking.,never go through that again.

jl in my experience very few will cross that line. but if you are trying to grow your search pool then i would suggest only contacting those possible ladies who only selected it in the built in choices. if the said something in the body of their profile then no i wouldn't

Get into the forums and CHAT with peeps. I know I'm not the only one who has her preferences, but like all rules-they can be bent or broken FOR THE RIGHT PERSON.

your sense of smell kinda deadens when you are a smoker
and you do not realize that your car, house, clothes all reek of cigarette smoke. Your hands smell like smoke and your breath may be bad..teeth may be yellow



now I know this and can say this because I have been a smoker

I prefer to date nonsmokers like myself though I have dated and been in relationships with those that did smoke.

I have found only one brand of cigs that I like the smell or rather, lack there of...


Best wishes upon your search...

and no offense trish but reformed smokers can be the least tolerant on the non smoking crowd

I have allergy from the smoke of cigarette, that's why I would prefer to date non smoker guy. So no problem in the future.

you better believe it...hahaha

actually I am more tolerant than ya think
if my oldest son smokes it does not bother me
but I do make him go outside

if my brother lights up next to me? I am ok with it
but I am just saying that when you are smoker you may not be aware of these things and a person who does not smoke might not be honest enough to let you know

oh i don't disagree with that part. and some day even i notice it on myself

I have in the past tried to quit but lets put it this way... if I were in the middle of a forest with on smokes the bears would move out.

I have in the past tried to quit but lets put it this way... if I were in the middle of a forest with on smokes the bears would move out.

I can't date or be in a relationship with a smoker again. When you bury your younger brother who smoked, it shows how bad that habit really is. Both my ex's smoked, but the first one quit pretty much the entire time we were married, but started up again, right about the same time she started cheating on me.

The last ex, promised she would quit when she moved into my house, then again when we got married, then again when she was dealing with health issue, but she didn't. Of course, she made a lot of promises to me, that she didn't keep, although I kept all of mine, except the one "till death do us apart".

I quit smoking cigarettes 30 years ago, in favour of cannabis.. hubby at the time was a consumer of the leaf.
As I gander at the men I know, friends, acquaintances - if they are cigarette smokers, I cannot think of them in a sexual way - the thought of the bad breath, smokey clothes is a turnoff... yet if they are 420 friendly, it is different for me... something in common to start..
fyi.. I had to go through quite the process.. and have a prescription for the weed so I am legal, thanks.
Cigarettes - No
Cannabis - Yes

Evey one is different I'm a ex smoker when I quit I was smoking 3 packs a day.. Stopped almost 13 years ago..

Do I date smokers sure I don't have a problem with it as long as they respect there is no smoking in my car or house.. What they do in their own is up to them.. But still expect them to respect my wishes if I'm in the vehicle with them.. At least ask me before you light up.. Roll down that window and turn up the air.. lol And don't blow smoke in my face or my way...

I smoked for years and when I quit I went through a period of getting bad headaches when I was around smokers.
That has faded thankfully since so many of my friends smoke.

Smoking has never been allowed in my car, house, etc.. Just not going to happen.

Dating a smoker well that is debatable for me.
I personally don't want to be kissing an ashtray, I don't want to roll over in the middle of the night and want to snuggle and be met with the stench of stale smoke.

There are ways to make compromises.. And if they could be met then I might be open to it.

Really depends on the person though..