I was told my post about a member who lies and prays on women was deleted becuase it was gossip and drama. This site does not care about its women and when there is information that is needed about thier safety it is drama??? I have gotten several emails from women who this guy has harrassed. They are thanking me........

seems kinda dumb if you ask me i guess the creators care more about one guy's feelings then the girls' safety at least you're appreciated

well I thank you for telling all the women out there, and always keep your head. Don't worry about the stupid people that wanted it deleted they may have all been his friends and no all ablout him.

yeah if some guy likes preying on women he isnt too good of a person

Thank you! We have to watch out for one another. As of yet, I don't think that I've encountered this individual. Please e-mail me, and let me know who the creep is. I experienced a similar situation on a couple of other sites...fortunately, each site master took my concern seriously. I'm grateful, that you had the courage to do the right thing...and know, that you're fierce!

Thank you! We have to watch out for one another. As of yet, I don't think that I've encountered this individual. Please e-mail me, and let me know who the creep is. I experienced a similar situation on a couple of other sites...fortunately, each site master took my concern seriously. I'm grateful, that you had the courage to do the right thing...and know, that you're fierce!

to much..women do the same thing..i just had it done to me...ask ..fade2black..shes very rude..and told me to f off..

I dated a guy who pretended to be someone he wasnt and then after 3 weeks decided he wanted to be honest with me and told me he did 10 yrs in prison for man slaughter!!!! after I broke it off he kept comming to my house wanting to be with me, didnt want to except no for an answer and sent me emails and so on. finally I threatened him with the police and said he was stalking me and he finnally backed off but it was scary and I wish some one would have warned me. there are alot of creepy people out there and you cant tell who a person really is online.

Hello there .....in the rules of JSH you are not allowed to name another member in the threads. It is best to report them to Mike Van or Matt and let them know and if you feel that women need to know, tell themina thread to email you for info

them in a thread...LOL

Who in the hell is Matt?

Fanta, Matt is the guy who started Mingle.....he is now one of our fearless leaders too!!

You can say anything you want, just have to be POLITICALLY correct. Every place has to have rules.

You have to take your time to get to know people. Check them out before you let them know where you live. Be very careful about phone numbers as they lead right back to where you live. Meet in public places several times. Take notes and see if people trip themselves up in lies; often they will.

You can rant, but it is faster to email all the ladies you know and inform them to report the guy. It is much faster to have a ton of people report someone than to deal with those who would abuse the system to save a guys face and get you into trouble for naming him in the public forums.

It makes perfect sense to me......Report, and have all the ladies report, they will spread out fast.....trust me. We know how to get tons of posts just by a few emails since the word can spread much faster per email, we can say what we want AND we don't get into trouble for it.

We ladies can stick together, AND I would like to ADD that most of the gentlemen here at the site would be more than happy to report as well. They will defend you! Believe it!

I meant to say that we know how to get tons or reports by just a few emails......

Yes we can rant- but are not supposed to metion names or slander anyone, or attack.

You can e-mail your friend's if you are worried about something.

The best thing is to report scams or problems to Mike, Van, and Matt.

I thought that is what I said Ms Teddy was I misunderstood? Report to friends in an email, have them report to Mike, Van and Matt...the word spreads faster in an email and you can say whatever you want in an email as well as who the jerks are......thats all

sorry did'nt mean to sound like a copy cat...

creation....I think you and MsTeddy just post a few seconds after one another.....but if we stress it maybe the jerks will understand too