Why do women fall in love with you and go into a relationship with you because you are perfect then they leave you years later because you are still the same man they fell for

Things change ,people change nothing ever stay's the same.

because who she thought you were did not hold up over time
because she saw potential in you
because she changed over time and so did her wants and needs and you did not
because she got bored
because someone else looked more interesting or challenging

Lolls
No one is perfect.
Its the differences and unique characteristics makes
Us who we are. Yes people do change some but is it real
Love they had for you in the first place. I dunno. We go through many relationships through our lives. Enjoy the ones you have now, we don't live forever.

Uh, why the generalization about women? Also, who said that you were perfect?

Its a general question am not refering to myself

It's quite obvious you have been hurt, but so have been many women...
If you are making such general assumption about women now, you aren't doing yourself a favour, because you are sending out such energy which is pushing away the possible women for you...

By the way, they say that the change is actually the only constant in life
Seeking a person or relationship that don't change is unrealistic. Not changing also means not growing, not learning. So would you like a person who doesn't learn and grow? Of course, it is problematic if they grow into different direction while together (that was in my relationship, too), but we cannot help that. I think, it is best if not ideal, if two people meet and grow into the same direction...

the love chemicals created in your brain wears off 1-2 years and "years later". no way you are the same you either grow or die.

because they arent the same person that fell for you,, they have changed

truth is, thats neither good nor bad, but inevitable

and when people dont change/grow along with each other, sometimes they grow apart...

Yeah...the only thing that is constant and continual in 3D universe is THE CHANGE!!

Perfect as usual msharmony!!!

I love your so rational thinking & the way you put it in words..!!!

That's cool, calm n confident..!!!

leaving alone the 'you're perfect' issue,
people become interested in someone for a lot of different reasons.
many call something that is essentially superficial 'falling in love'.
whether or not a relationship started with both people being in love, maintaining that relationship takes effort on an ongoing basis.
priorities shift depending on what is going on in life or simply with maturity.
for example, if you met someone who likes to party and then you see that this fun person is really irresponsible, you might rethink your ideas if you're wanting to settle down and have a family