Topic: i cant settle down without awhite man
Favr's photo
Wed 08/26/15 03:21 PM
what are my chances here of finding white man for longterm love

JohnB86's photo
Wed 08/26/15 03:32 PM
You have big chance, but you have to be serious and to know what you really want.

SitkaRains's photo
Wed 08/26/15 03:36 PM
Everyone is entitled to be attracted to what they want
I think for me the colour of a man's skin wouldn't the the highest priority.
There are so many other things to consider...
Like
honour,
integrity
respect

oh the list could go on and on.

no photo
Thu 08/27/15 07:35 PM

what are my chances here of finding white man for longterm love


Nothing personal. Just a preference thing. I've never been attracted to black women. There are many white men that are. But, From what I read. A lot of it has to do with the black woman's attitude. If you are the loud pushy type, I would think for most white men it would be a turnoff.

no photo
Sun 08/30/15 09:15 AM
Interesting observation. I don't think race or colour should matter. All that matters is what comes from within a person's heart. Good luck all.

Jesusmyall's photo
Wed 09/02/15 02:42 AM


what are my chances here of finding white man for longterm love


Nothing personal. Just a preference thing. I've never been attracted to black women. There are many white men that are. But, From what I read. A lot of it has to do with the black woman's attitude. If you are the loud pushy type, I would think for most white men it would be a turnoff.


Just wondering what the below means:
"If you are the loud pushy type, I would think for most white men it would be a turnoff".???

Character is not racial!!! I know white women and Asians who are loud and pushy!!!

Jesusmyall's photo
Wed 09/02/15 02:44 AM

Everyone is entitled to be attracted to what they want
I think for me the colour of a man's skin wouldn't the the highest priority.
There are so many other things to consider...
Like
honour,
integrity
respect

oh the list could go on and on.


Completely agree with you. And I add God-loving and God fearing to your list.

yonna09's photo
Fri 09/18/15 10:11 PM
That is true, but being honest with yourself as a black woman...it is more common amongst us because we (black women in General) are so used to not being heard, and hurt that's the way we are....or even how we were raised...not saying that there aren't other races that are the same and not saying it's all black women.....it's just more common in us.

VanessaL07's photo
Mon 09/28/15 06:41 PM
A woman of any race can be loud or pushy. it's not just In the black women race.

Jesusmyall's photo
Wed 09/30/15 11:16 AM

That is true, but being honest with yourself as a black woman...it is more common amongst us because we (black women in General) are so used to not being heard, and hurt that's the way we are....or even how we were raised...not saying that there aren't other races that are the same and not saying it's all black women.....it's just more common in us.


Sorry, I don't have that experience and I was not raised that way. Behavior is learned. It is not racial!

msharmony's photo
Wed 09/30/15 11:56 AM

what are my chances here of finding white man for longterm love


just as well as finding a well endowed man
or a tall man
or a blonde man
or a bald man



pick any asthetic attribute upon which to base your choice,,,and its pretty much the same issue

ACTIV89's photo
Thu 10/15/15 06:24 AM
Edited by ACTIV89 on Thu 10/15/15 06:29 AM



That is true, but being honest with yourself as a black woman...it is more common amongst us because we (black women in General) are so used to not being heard, and hurt that's the way we are....or even how we were raised...not saying that there aren't other races that are the same and not saying it's all black women.....it's just more common in us.


Sorry, I don't have that experience and I was not raised that way. Behavior is learned. It is not racial!


Well said :thumbsup: I get so sick of hearing that BS stereotype

Favr's photo
Thu 10/22/15 06:42 AM
thax guys,but being loud and pushy is nt acharacteristic of black women,any woman of any race can be that,its ahuman nature not arace nature ddaaah:angry: