I never have been into relationship or even great friendship with any girl because i am too shy to talk to her . I also have a feeling that girls look into me and just bcos i am too shy And unable to maintain eye contact with them , it kind of make them think me as a non person . . I am not Desperate i am just confused ? Is this normal thing for shy guys that girls ignore them . .

Yes it is normal for girls to not have a conversation with anyone unable to start or keep a conversation going.
A conversation takes two people and they will sense your discomfort.
Shyness can be endearing to some girls though.
Have you thought about seeing a counselor and working out why you are so shy around girls?

Of course she will ignore you.
Only few girls come and start conversation.
This shy thing is only your brain messing around with you, you must remove that obstacle if you want to find a girl.

Easier said than done for some gentle souls.

Yea I know, but that is only way, there is no other way, or you change yourself or stay alone forever....
This is cruel maybe but it's only way.

Making eye contact & conversation is the only way.
Women know there are at least 5 types of people who don't make eye contact.
1- They hate you
2- They are shy
3- They harbor guilt
4- They are perverse
5- They just want to be left alone.

A stranger, especially a woman, is not going to take the time to find out or take the chance.

No matter how shy you are, you can start off by smiling at others and they will definitely smile back.The next thing is to say HELLO and see how it goes.Take baby steps and you will gain your self confidence, slowly but surely

Well yeah it is not that easy u know . . Whenever i try to talk to some girl , it makes me think she is feeling uncomfortable bcos of my talking to her . It feels sick sometimes bcos it always makes me feel women are so judgemental . .

You have to look them straight in the eyes, brother.

If you don't you will never know what they really want.... the eyes never lie ;)

I know it is not easy. I think you are 'projecting '_ you are assuming you know what women/ girls are thinking & that it is negative & about you.
* Believe me... women don't know what other women are thinking... we are complicated & annoying creatures.. *

Self esteem is the issue here, & cognitive therapy... what you think & tell yourself IS the problem.. IMO.
I am Googling for you & will message you later.

Can you talk to your mother or sisters or girl cousin's and manitain eye contact and converse freely and naturally sori for stating the obvious they are girls but without the expectations of guy likes girl or will she like me will she think iam Kool etc etc we feel at ease .In our daily lifes we encounter many woman shop keeper /girl at dvd store / waitress and so on and so/ you get my point because there in the service industry they will engage you try starting there for practice (EG) waiteress - morning sir how are you this morning(you) lam fine thanks and yourself (w) )what can I get you today (y) what would you recommend etc etc the you practice the more you'll feel at ease gud luck dude always ask bridging questions that require more then a yes no response

It is normal for some girls to ignore shy guys, every individual has preferences who they want to talk to. But as for you being shy, I don't think that's healthy because it would affect your relationship with the people around you if you are afraid to socialize. There must be an underlying reason why are you too shy. Try to be with people you are comfortable with who you feel wouldn't make any judgement or criticism. Make an effort to reach out to people because not all the time they will be the first to approach you. You will be lucky if there's a girl who understands your shyness and if she has a good heart she would make an effort to make you feel at ease and encourage or stimulate you to talk. A girl who is really interested with you as a person will accept you as you are and will never ignore you instead help you get over your shyness.

Just a suggestion if you can try this I hope it could help. Try to face in front of the mirror every day and practice the piece that you want to say to the girl that you want until you feel comfortable and confident enough to say it. Keep doing it everyday , say it again and again. Build your confidence. Then when you have the opportunity to talk to the girl, start from saying hi or hello. If she responds , good and you can start with short and simple conversation by asking basic information about the girl. I hope this will help you in any way

Thanks dude . .

with mother or sister i dont have any problem but yes infront of cousin whome i had met few times then again problem arises . . .

He is right. Chin up and eyes front. Most women dont like shy because it shows a lack of confidence. Guys typicaly think its cute when girls are shy. At least i do.

Gud luck dude hopefully theres sum help in my post that you can use or sparks a idea that helps you feel more at ease

Do what Raj does from the Big Bang Theory....Liquid courage works wonders.

So who's judgemental here? Lol.
It's a matter of being insecure and low self-esteem. If you want that to change, you gotta work on it. And yeah, that will take time, but if you really want to ... it's your choice to make to work on it, and yours alone.
You cannot blame others for your own short comings. That's the easy way out, which won't get you anywhere in life.

Google on it, I'm sure there's plenty of info on the net on how to raise your self-esteem.
Otherwise get a coach involved.

Forever Aloners out there

if you can change it: change it
if you cannot: accept it

for instance if you are 5ft 8 and done growing ? get used to it
if you are 150 pound weakling or an over 200 pound couch potato and do not want to be? try the gym

if you hate your job? find another
if you never went back to school? go register

if you feel like you cannot keep up in an conversation? educate yourself on current topics