This is what my locals are like.... lol.

Well, most of the women that I've met through this have turned out to be mental. I don't expect everybody to be interested in me and maybe I attract them but it's the impulsive ones that actually make dates.

There really isn't any point in dragging it out with the emails if you're dating locally. I can tell you my life story when we meet up. One that I dated said that she wasn't really into emailing and she had to meet me to "know". And this was somebody that texts and Facebooks friends all the time. It's a scarey thing, meeting a man from the internet, apparently. You get all these time wasters telling you that they need to feel comfortable before they'll meet you but there's nothing that you can say in emails to prove that you're not creepy and the more time you spend trying to talk them into a meeting the creepier they'll think that you are.

I met two scammers probably the same person using a different profile (they sounded and seemed very similar in texts), one local and there is one person on my cell will see were that goes.

I have chatted just because with a few people here. Majority are looking for fun which I tell them no but at least they are up front about it and I am not wasting time.

Some are looking for relationships but there is a distance issue.

I was going to meet my friend from here, but then something happened and we haven't met in person yet.
There are others I can meet but I am an honest person so I let them know I'm talking to someone else if they still want to be friends and hang out then that's fine...