Topic: Alone, still...
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Sun 10/14/07 07:48 AM
Knox...You don't have to apologize to me...you are welcome to your opinion! Although I don't have to think your opinion is acurate......flowerforyou

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Sun 10/14/07 07:51 AM
That's true, Freshflowerforyou ,

We all agree to disagree here.

But, one question, please:

What do you REALLY think of my pumpkin?laugh

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Sun 10/14/07 07:52 AM
i have to agree with fresh---
not true
being a woman and working with a lot of women and having a lot of friends that are women...we all talk.
no one ever saids i want to be treated like dirt!!
i would give my opinion, however i am not wanting to argue

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Sun 10/14/07 07:54 AM
laugh laugh LOL....I think your pumpkin drank to much!!!LMAO...

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Sun 10/14/07 03:06 PM
You guys are awesome! Thanks for all the advice. Someone special will come along! I've been reading through the posts, and discovered that I just need to wait (some more ;) ) and focus on other things...

Thanks guys.

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Sun 10/14/07 03:26 PM
Blainiac, yeah just be patient, and don't worry about being single. When you find someone, you'll get her. Try not to get desperate, and be "that creepy guy". From what you've posted, you seem normal, just enjoy life, and focus on your goals.



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Sun 10/14/07 04:00 PM
Thanks, dude. I was on the verge of becoming desperate! ;)

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Sun 10/14/07 06:14 PM
two things that are very attractive to both sexes:

confidence

and

have your own life

drinker

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Sun 10/14/07 06:18 PM
MY ADVICE TO YOU ALL..IS TO BE AWARE OF THE LADT..FADE2BLACK...SHE IS VERY RUDE AND SWEARS AT YOU..IF SHE DOESNT GET HER OWN WAY..OR LIKE WHAT SHE HEARS..SHE WILL CALL YOU NASTY NAMES..JUST BE CAUTIOUS WITH HER..TY

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Sun 10/14/07 07:29 PM
dude cmon thats not cool just report her if she abuses you on the site, u dont have to go picking fights on random threads just bcause someone u dont like happens to b there

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Sun 10/14/07 07:38 PM
Thanks Lizard. *hugs*

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Sun 10/14/07 07:50 PM
excuse me smileyjoe. Fade2black is a personal friend of mine whom I have know for years. She is NOT fake by any means. She is a very CLASSY lady and if she swore at you, which I doubt, you probably had it coming to you!

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Sun 10/14/07 08:09 PM
well no worries dude..i am on the same page..well the nice guy part..lol yes i agree half the girls i kno have been cheated on//or treated like crap and we nice guys well we dont even get the left overs..hah nothing

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Sun 10/14/07 08:12 PM
I don't know of one person who has not dealt with hurt and disappointment..It's how we handle it that is the hard part..Most often time does help us heal best..good luck!
xoxoPeaches.

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Sun 10/14/07 08:12 PM

I'm also backing Judy as i've known her for a long time, I would also caution, that calling members out in forums is a direct violation of terms of use. It is clearly stated, that if you have concerns about a member, it is inappropriate to post this in forums.

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Sun 10/14/07 08:20 PM
Thanks Ruth and Mark .. I figured my friends would speak up for me. No need for me to defend myself. smokin



Now .. back to the OP's concerns...................flowerforyou

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Sun 10/14/07 08:24 PM
As to the OP's concerns... may I suggest that you just wait a while? you're young enough still....love doesn't have to come right now, does it? and the other thing I wanted to share with you is this... when you stop looking, love will find you!


good luck! :smile:

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Sun 10/14/07 08:26 PM
Nice girls, nice guys, They don't finish last. You'll find your girl, and Hopefully This weird one will find her guy! Think of yourself as the sweetest apple at the top of the tree. The one who climbs that tree to get you will come for you.

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Sun 10/14/07 08:39 PM

i'm sorry, please forgive my manners Blainiac,

Don't worry, you are young, You are nice looking, and apparently articulate. She will be along soon, in fact you will date many before you find that special one. Good luck to you, and patience is a virtue.

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Sun 10/14/07 09:08 PM
No worries, Mark! Thanks for the encouragement and advice!