well its a random pick, some are good some are fair and some are worse

Some are a$$holes

Hi am interested

Good and sincere guys are still out there..just that the bad ones are much...u need to keep on trying..and for u to meet a good and sincere guy u need to leave bad ones...

I must be meeting the sisters of those same guys

A few tentative points:

Dating is inherently a dishonest endeavor at the start. Each person tries to put forth their best side and to hide their (as they perceive them) faults. Of course these faults usually reveal themselves but only after enough time has passed to give romance a passing chance.

Of course some people of both sexes are shallow. Sad for them. I notice quite a few women who haven't filled out even one of the profile fields. That means that the only criteria I have to decide if they should be a match is their appearance. This can work for women sometimes, but they shouldn't complain about the responses they get.

I think that the best long term companion and lover aught to be a best friend as well. I much prefer to be friends first, and then lovers. Unfortunately, this preference has made me very familiar with the "friend zone." Ladies, perhaps you might consider checking out that friend zone for hidden wealth! Passion is easy to generate but a good friendship is not.

It is natural and proper, according to evolutionary psychology, that a woman expect financial assistance, gifts or the man to pay the cheque. This is because the female has by far the greater investment in reproduction and consequently the greater power in sexual selection. The males must compete to prove fitness, the females select. Kindness, humor and compassion can also prove fitness and, at the end of the day, women usually recognize this. (My "Nice guys finish first" theory)

You know, most guys here and other sites are either scammers or very not mature guys (towards ladies).They don't either understand or try to understand the ladies. Those who do are few and you encounter the majority. Most of us are not on sites because we are taken. Ask yourself if a lady meets a very sincere guy would she let go of him and be with another? Please!!!!
So a few of us that are here are very genuine and sincere

we can talk

with whom?

One thing we must understand is that, if you find it hard to build relationship with the people you see physically, then why think it will be easy to build online....its still the same people and all you can do is keep trying till you meet the right one..

Yes....

I think most think its just to hook up. They are wrong some people actually want to build up a good relationship. I for one want something long term. I have said hello just see were it goes but get nothing but crickets in return most of the time. If I wanted just sex I could go to the bar for that.

I'm here