Topic: how do i meet a woman thats not trying to scramm me
latino43's photo
Thu 08/20/15 12:10 PM
Hi! I am with you! its like 85 % of the ladies are scammers I say ladies because those are the ones that I search, and once i confront them with something they do not reply no more most of these smart people like you said are from Africa the most model look alike pictures are the fake ones and this site do not delete them because they are the ones that bring the business; what they do is block them from the person complaining leaving the rest of member at the same risk of getting scammed with money and ID theft.

TyphoonMk1b's photo
Thu 08/20/15 03:15 PM


Well now he just gave you a tip too far is not far in the real world..

The first time I have ever been told I am youngflowerforyou laugh


re-read what i said:
You are too young for me!
do not forget the "for me"

ahdamn... i turned a compliment into a slap.

Sowwwie!
:D

tanstro's photo
Sat 08/22/15 03:51 PM
wow, I had no idea men had to deal with as much scammer a women.

no photo
Sat 08/22/15 03:59 PM
Dont give em money simple imao

no photo
Sat 08/22/15 04:49 PM
I guess I don't have any advice to offer about this. I have been on this site since last year and have not had 1 single scammer. Maybe some were potential scammers, but if they view my profile, they don't write to me. I have never been asked for money, or anything like that. Maybe scammers don't like my looks or where I live, lol

Mcmurians's photo
Sat 08/22/15 05:42 PM
The ones asking you for money are scammers just beware.

2bhappy4ever's photo
Sat 08/22/15 05:45 PM


Use the good old MGTOW technique of playing Poor.
you have your house, your job and your life in order, but refuse to talk about your financial situation.


Listen
If she talks about money - especially not having any...
Walk away.
If she is 30 and drops hints about student loans...
walk away.
If she is 50 and talks about her babydaddy refusing to pay child support...
walk away.


Read and aquire info.
read their profiles. if you see a woman who likes to go on vacation, she likes "to be taken" on vacation. If she likes to go to restaurants, vacation, is looking for a man "to treat her right" and such...
those are what you call "red flags"

go from virtual to real
if a woman is genuinely interested in you, meet up.
In fact, money should be no subject at all until you have met her a dozen times.



If any money talk comes up during the first 3 months after meeting a person
Walk away.


And have your D.... your Passion under control to actually WALK AWAY.
[how to do that, is to follow Bill Burr�s advice to, err.... "rub one out" i believe he said.]
think with the Big head.
shut the Small head up.



Simplez.



Takes notes.

Seriously, that was well articulated.


I will save this for later. Good advice.

tulip2633's photo
Sat 08/22/15 05:47 PM
IDK OP but now all I want is some scrammbeled eggs.

With bacon.

biggrin

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 08/22/15 06:15 PM
You can not be scammed if you don't try to buy "love" by sending money and gifts. The scammers loose interest real fast when they can't jerk you around.

Tip; if they want you to go to another site they have already gotten you to allow them to manipulate you. Especially if you give them a phone number which allows them to "research you" top to bottom and know exactly how much you are worth.

IMHO Any woman who can't put her big girl panties on and live with in her means it is going to be a miserable relationship no matter how much you can offer. Heck this is really a gender neutral flaw. It is a basic a true character flaw to be a thief and live beyond your means as an adult and expecting someone to pay your bills for nothing makes you nothing more than a prostitute.

MelMaxx's photo
Sat 08/22/15 06:19 PM

Use the good old MGTOW technique of playing Poor.
you have your house, your job and your life in order, but refuse to talk about your financial situation.


Listen
If she talks about money - especially not having any...
Walk away.
If she is 30 and drops hints about student loans...
walk away.
If she is 50 and talks about her babydaddy refusing to pay child support...
walk away.


Read and aquire info.
read their profiles. if you see a woman who likes to go on vacation, she likes "to be taken" on vacation. If she likes to go to restaurants, vacation, is looking for a man "to treat her right" and such...
those are what you call "red flags"

go from virtual to real
if a woman is genuinely interested in you, meet up.
In fact, money should be no subject at all until you have met her a dozen times.



If any money talk comes up during the first 3 months after meeting a person
Walk away.


And have your D.... your Passion under control to actually WALK AWAY.
[how to do that, is to follow Bill Burr�s advice to, err.... "rub one out" i believe he said.]
think with the Big head.
shut the Small head up.



Simplez.



offtopic MGTOW technique? Could you explain what MGTOW means,please?

MaggiePisces's photo
Sat 08/29/15 10:04 AM
There are as many male scammers as females. I sometimes wonder why good looking men with good career (as per their profile) have to look for partners online. This itself is a big red flag !!

no photo
Sat 08/29/15 11:24 AM
Edited by SM8 on Sat 08/29/15 11:30 AM
I have been on this site for maybe a month I have met several people. Two I know were scammers one pretending to be a navy medic wanting me to help pay for his leave fee and another needing help with a Canada Visa.

Both wanted to get married with in a week of meeting them ..heck they were probably the same person.


I think that the majority of the people here are ok otherwise I would stop coming back. There are lots of ways to report scammers like the Navy has a scam department as does the Royal Canadian Mounted Police. Make sure you have proof though.

If your asked for money on email you can report them as a phishing scam then block them.

no photo
Sat 08/29/15 11:37 AM
Meet women other places besides on here or besides just online.

Annierooroo's photo
Sun 08/30/15 10:05 AM

Chasing skirts, and learning lessons from the Past.
I failed at the first, because i succeeded at the second.
so i am back looking for a smart woman that likes to dance the dance.

I know one, but damn she is from frickin� Anchorage, and she already has a tango partner.

Life sucks.
:D


Oooooh feel for you bro
Someone better will come along and you can tango as much as you like.

Go slow ,don't rush.
Make sure she has everything in her lunch box.

JudyP94566's photo
Sun 08/30/15 10:09 AM
There are alot of Men and women on here that are not scammers, but unfortunately most of them have been burnt before and are afraid to take a chance. Just be careful, I learned to Question right away now. Where are you from? If they tell me they are somewhere other than there profile says and there email to me starts out Hello Dear, or the first thing they ask is to send them my email or phone number so they can contact me, they are more than likely a scammer. I call them out on it immediately and report them...Don't give up, keep trying, we (the real women and men) are out there...

TyphoonMk1b's photo
Sun 08/30/15 10:22 AM
Edited by TyphoonMk1b on Sun 08/30/15 10:50 AM

Go slow ,don't rush.
Make sure she has everything in her lunch box.


No need to rush, as i am perfectly happy just to stay alone and keep my life from falling apart, crashing down.

If i meet same, from the opposite sex, and we like to tango because we like each other, then that might be the start of a badass team, and we will rule the world :D

I took Judy�s advice two days ago, and asked a volley of questions right away.
The Woman that got questioned did not like the questions, but when i explained the reasons, she understood and fired a salvo of questions right back.

Been playing that game for two days now, and really enjoying the exchange.


-edit: comprehension-

Annierooroo's photo
Sun 08/30/15 10:26 AM
Lol Still be careful

no1phD's photo
Sun 08/30/15 10:34 AM

how do i meet me a real honest woman thats not trying to con me for money because thats all i seem to run arcoss on this site
.. first thing you have to do..
is change your profile picture.. you look too overdressed..Too formal too rich.. find a cardboard box and take a picture of it with you inside of it.. that will set a tone of poverty... then somewhere in your profile declaration.. say something in regards to.. could use some financial help.. in the way of a loan... that usually sends them running in the other directionlaugh :wink: slaphead

SitkaRains's photo
Sun 08/30/15 10:47 AM

There are as many male scammers as females. I sometimes wonder why good looking men with good career (as per their profile) have to look for partners online. This itself is a big red flag !!


You are absolutely Correct there are many scammers in either gender..

Now as per your statement couldn't this go both ways.

I mean there are many well dressed women out here and have great careers and yet here we are looking for the same thing everyone else it.

So why is it a huge red flag.???

should they come out in gardening or fishing clothes, list they are unemployed then say surprise????

TyphoonMk1b's photo
Sun 08/30/15 10:48 AM

say something in regards to.. could use some financial help.. in the way of a loan... that usually sends them running in the other directionlaugh :wink: slaphead


awesome!
Tip of the day.
If she still hangs around she passed the money test.