I admit, although I do not date or anything and am completely abstinent or maybe even celibate, I need to cuddle. Yet, there's no one to safely cuddle with. And so I don't cuddle at all. I'm not ready for the, uh herm, romance which ensues after it just yet. Also, I'm waiting for marriage. I need to be courted. Courtship seems to be non-existent if ever existed and, in the meantime, my needs occasionally roar.

And so, I sit alone year after year with the occasional need to cuddle. Just cuddle. Nothing more.

Does any one here relate?

you'll need someone in the same frame of mind...

either that or a gay friend might indulge you on this one...

Search the Bible for the answers and to know the right thing to do.

what exacty does "cuddling" have to do with specifically "sex"? That would be like saying just because you're kissing the someone, you plan or want to have sex with them. Cuddling is a way to feel "close" physically to someone, without actually having sex, but again remaining that "close" feeling of the other's flesh on yours.

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